We Both Matured Within Time

Assalammualaikum and A very good evening, readers.

Hari ni berkesempatan jumpa seorang lagi sahabat masa degree dulu. Aku ni jenis mudah berkawan, maka masa degree dulu aku ada geng sesemak (lima orang perempuan) dan geng mixture (tiga perempuan dan tiga lelaki yang official). Walupun aku ada geng rapat bukan bermaksud aku tak bersosial dengan yang lain. Bagi aku istilah geng ni, bila ko buat aktiviti senang buat perancangan dengan dowg sebab sekepala walupun masih ketegaq, hahaha. Macam yang aku jumpa hari ni ialah geng mixture aku iaitu, Noor Halizam Mohd Noor dengan nama gelaran Zam Johor/Zam pendek disebabkan ada dua zam dalam course kteowg. Geng2 aku ni setakat gurau2 kasar atau sarkastik tak de masalah, no hard feeling. Dah nama pon geng kan. Setakat panggil Zam Pendek, dia ok jek tp tak sedap la kan sebab percakapan juga adalah doa sebab tu kena cakap benda2 yang baik.

Awal perkenalan dengan zam sebagai coursemate aku bukanlah sesuatu yang memberi good impression pada aku. Mamat ni agak poyo dan skema pada aku. Kalau dalam kelas, bila ada group presentation, adalah sangat tak best kalau dia angkat tangan untuk tanya soalan sebab maklumlah bila jd student ni tak suka nak renyah jawab soalan yang bombastik as long as dapat lepas markah assignment, setel. Mmg annoyed jugak bila nk menjawab soalan dia. Memang kepantangan aku kalau orang poyo tanya aku soalan pastu dia extendkan soalan lagi, maka aku dengan poyo jugak sahut servis lontaran soalan dia macam berbalas hantaran bola tangkis badminton. Oleh yang demikian, orang sering kaitkan kteowg as rival dan sampai satu tahap aku dan dia dikaitkan sebagai skandal disebabkan sering berbalah pendapat. Well, ajaibnya we end up as a good friend sebab perbalahan tu jugak yang menyebabkan aku mula kenali dia dan memahami disebalik kepoyoaan dia. At least he try to be himself and honest about everything. Degree ni adalah platform untuk dia tunjukkan apa yang dia boleh capai yang dimana sebelum ni dia tidak berpeluang, and he graduated dengan beberapa anugerah tertinggi semasa Majlis Konvokesyen UPM tahun 2009, I am proud of you bro.

Ni gambar dia dengan isteri dan puteri beliau semasa beliau terima anugerah khas PTD.Ingat tadi nak berwefie ngan dia takut timbul fitnah plak walupun as a good old time friend.

Tujuan ak berjumpa dengan zam ni adalah untuk bertanya sesuatu berkaitan dengan bidang tugas PTD. Thank you to him, banyak input yang aku dapat walupun dalam kekangan dan kesibukan masa beliau, dia sudi untuk jumpa dengan aku. That's what we called a true friend, walau dalam kesibukan masa dia adakan masa untuk kita juga.  Dia banyak tolong aku dan kawan aku waktu aku praktikal di MPOB Kluang since rumah dia berdekatan, so kenal jugak dengan parent and adik beradik dia. It was sad to hear, kakak dia yang pernah aku dtg rumah dia masa praktikal di Kluang telah kembali ke rahmatullah dua tahun yang lepas. Time flies fast.

Sepatutnya esok tp last minute dia dia lunch date hari ni sebab esok dia kerja di luar kawasan. Sepatutnya, aku puasa 1 Rejab hari ni tapi since dia tukar date hari ni, aku batalkan niat aku. Alangkah terkejutnya bila tiba ditempat yang dijanjikan dia kata dia puasa, it so kay for him if i have my lunch during our discussion. Awal2 lg aku dah rasa dia akan puasa sebab dia jenis faith man tapi since dia request mintak jumpa kat food court so aku ingat dia tak puasa, tapi aku silap sama sekali. Tu yang buat aku salute kat dia sebagai kawan aku. Aku yang rugi sebab tuang puasa 1 Rejab aku.

Memang lama kteowg tak bersua muka, hanya berWhatsapp bila berpeluang tu pon sangat jarang. So dia mmg terkejut bila jumpe aku tadi selama fizikal aku lain katenya and dia kata nampak pompuan sangat dah aku. Maklumlah dulu xsempat nk tunjuk pompuan dah kena masuk ladang pegang cangkul, legam kene terik matahari kan. Bertahun-tahun jugak la aku x bertemu ngan dia, even dia kahwin and housewarming pon x berkesempatan jumpa. Wife dia pon aku kenal masa degree dulu, budak UPM.  

Satu yang aku perasan both of us matang dengan peredaran masa, through different experiences sebab aku dan dia dalam bidang yang berlainan but we have mutual understandings in what happening around us in our life. Padahal dulu selalu berbeza pendapat tapi kini mencapai kata sepakat yang sama. Tak sangka sejam lebih tu pon tak cukup untuk kteowg berborak. I wish that in future we had time berkumpul semula dengan geng mixture yang lain bersama2 anak2, mesti seronok nak reminish zaman2 muda waktu degree dulu. Nasib baik tadi masing2 behave tak keluar perangai waktu degree dulu, ye la kata dah matang kan 😂. Anyway, zam tq for your time and I am still proud of you for what you already accomplished. No matter how different our path but we still had a same mission and vission towards the hereafter. Great job, bro!

Jenis Mudah Terhibur

Ada tak sesiapa yang kowg kenali jenis yang mudah terhibur, dengan kata lebih mudah ialah mudah tergelak? Aku ada termasuk la aku sendiri. Ramai yang mengandaikan bahawa orang mudah terhibur ni adalah orang yang selalu memendam kesedihan dalam diri. Lalu yang demikian, beliau mudah untuk mengekspresikan ketawa untuk menutup kesedihan yang dialami beliau daripada disedari orang lain. 

Aku kurang bersetuju dengan pandangan tersebut. Walaubagaimana, sememangnya ketawa merupakan salah satu terapi merawat kesedihan. Aku lebih bersetuju dengan pendapat bahawa orang yang mudah terhibur ni adalah orang yang yang sangat sensitif. Sensitif terhadap perubahan yang kecil dan skop nya meliputi keadaan sekeliling, jiwa serta perasaan. Disebabkan sifat sensitif inilah buat mereka mudah lebih bertindak balas lebih cepat dalam mengekspresikan perasaan mereka tatkala itu termasuklah ketawa berbanding mereka yang kurang sensitif terhadap perubahan. Kebanyakan orang yang mudah terhibur ni mudah menangis, ya itu merupakan tindakbalas perasaan mereka. Oleh yang demikian mereka selalu disalah ertikan dengan orang yang sensitif (lebih kepada sifat negatif iaitu beremosi). Tetapi sifat yang mudah beremosi bergantung pada individu mudah terhibur tersebut untuk menangani perasaan negatif tersebut. Tidak semua yang jenis mudah terhibur ini jenis yang selalu beremosi menangis dan sebagainya.

Apa jua jenis kawan2 anda, anda perlu berterima kasih atas kehadiran kawan2 anda yang mudah terhibur ini. Disebabkan kewujudan merekalah hari2 anda ceria dan bermakna. Ketiadaan mereka menyebabkan anda kesunyian. 

Aku sangat appreciate dengan apa jua kawan2 senang dan susah aku tak kira apa jua mereka daripada jenis yang mudah terhibur atau tidak. Mereka adalah sebahagian daripada hidup aku. 

Rajin2 la click vid kat bawah, vid aku dan kawan2 aku yang mudah terhibur 😍😍

Vid candid xperasan tengah rolling

Vid first take untuk dedicated buat seorang sahabat yang jenis kurang terhibur yang tak boleh join vacation kami

Vid second take. 

Siapa dan apa jua kelemahan dan kelebihan kita, kehadiran sahabat tu sentiasa melengkapi kehadiran masing2 😊

Bye bye my Taska's Job

Welcome February 2017!

Hye hye, silent readers. Hope you are doing really great and awesome! 

27th of January was the last day I worked at Taska de' Sayang under KPM, Putrajaya. It was another a great experience and pleasure in my life to work there together with nice people and the kids that really that always make my day happy. 

It was sad when I realized that my last day will come soon, same goes to other teachers as well. I thought my existence wont be that significance in that preschool since I was a part timer and worked halfday from 7.30am to 1.00pm but to my suprised, they said they gonna miss my existence. They said I was sporting to take part in any activities the preschool held, friendly and handful that make the environment so warm and cheerful. Indeed I am that kind of person 👽. But as usual, I am not good at parting, other would take me as a cold person if I reacted like I dont felt sad at all, how ever what I felt was totally opposite. Obviously I was so damn sad. 

What a joke, the final week before I left, the teachers in my class made a prank. Of course, I am a person who have a keen eye to see their intention to do so, but at last they did well. They requested all the teachers of that class to wear sport attires (which was totally broke the dress code), I said is it for real, but they said yes. I double confirmed the morning before I went to work with my cousin (one of teacher is my cousin's bestfriend who stayed in my cousin's house, what Jyha wore that morning) since I dont trust my colleagues but unfortunately my cousin also joined to prank me. Thanked to them, I off to work wore sport attires. The other teacher dont know the situation of the prank, so they teased me that I wanted to do some demo of exercises for the kids. When they knew the real intention, they just laughed. Good job dear colleagues, U had me pranked! 

Vid of my last week working

Vid the morning before reaching the workplace and before I knew I was pranked by my colleagues

Thank you dear teachers, parent and kids for the warm wishes and celebrations you guys did for me before leaving. I totally appreaciated for what you have give me especially those beautiful moments and great experiences that I cherished till enf of my life. Insha allah I will come to visit you guys. Thank you too for sending me those updates and pictures of my beloved kids to me although I wasnt there to help you guys anymore. Love all!

Vid of the kids last year before they entered to new class

 

 Teachers of 2 year class

 

Candid was the best pic when you captured with the kids

 

New batch of fave kid: Adlan. He wasnt able to walk properly at first when he entered our class. But after a few weeks after I trained him, he can walk very well. Love his smiles

 

2nd fave kid: Muaz

 

3rd fave kid: Amelia

Coincidentally that 4 of us shared same birthday. No wonder we engaged quite well.

Bye bye people. Gonna miss you 😘😘

The meet up 2

~ continuation of the first meet up~

Alhamdulillah, the meet up with the special person perfectly going well. Yes, a bit nervous at first glad no tears coming out but just happy moments till the end. My colleague and I went to pick this special person at this special person's home with my colleague's new own car. Then, we decided to have a lunch date at The Loaf, Mitsui Outlet. I can see every one of us miss each other. We sat there eating while having a long chatting updating our lives, really reminishing our old times. 

This special person to me is Puan Zabedah. Tumirin. We called Puan Zabedah as well. She was once our lab assistant officer until last year. It is totally different when she wasnt around. When her last day her in the last, I wasnt around to send her off, I just cant be there because I'm not good in say goodbye to someone I love. The good part is, her home wasnt that far from here, she stayed in Dengkil but as a retiree she's busy travelling around. She was like a mother to me. My late mother knew her as well. She has come visited my late mother when she was hospitalized and attended my sister's wedding. She can be a great advicer, listener, best friend, partner in crime and many more. That is why she is someone special to me. Plus, we shared same character and she thinks simple but realistic, and I think I am her prodigy 🤗 in terms of that. 

 

Puan Zabedah is the one in the middle obviously, she looked like chinese but she doesnt have chinese blood in her, she is javanese. Most of the time when we went out together, i was mistaken as her daughter. Indeed, I am not by blood, of course 😂.

The other person at the back was my colleague a.k.a my comrade, Adibah Mohd Amin. We believed Allah bring us together for some purposes, we are totally different in every way except for sarcastic, last minute doer, and brainer 😁 but yet we just blended well as a comrade. We first met at Pahang Matriculation College during our sport activities. To me, she's different kind. I love people who are different from others, my curiosity wanting me to explore her character. She knew me because we were staying at the same block but different floor. I dont have good friends in my practical class or lecture, but my good friend was my other 2 roommates, Sabrina and Uma. Most of the time, we did things together except for classes, we were not in the same practical class or lecture, luckily. The three of us was famous among students in that blocks. We kind of naughty, loud, crazy, so every night the guards would knocked at our door to make us silent  😂but believe me, despite of all those we were always be references to other student when they have problems in subjects. Maybe because of that, Adibah already knew me. Then, we were destined to be meet again during our bachelor degree, phD and now. She already passed her Viva and        enrolled her Doctorate degree before me, and I am happy for that. Though we are different but we always support each other. She said want to get on the stage with me next year to take the scroll, I knew she was waiting for me but I cant help it since it wasnt my share to funish viva same as her, but I promise to myself and her, Insha Allah I will follow her step soon. Next year we will be in the same stage, Adibah. I said to her, " somehow, might be my future career will be not same as we planned earlier (lecturer+researcher) but, please continuing to serve the future genereation because there is my dream in your, you knew that I love the field but I am not the way who have right to make it real, Allah is, but one thing to be sure you always can come to me for any matter, Adibah!". I said it right towards her, and I know she was sad to hear that one from me, I said it because I believed she's going to be a great person in her own stage as a lecturer and researcher without me. That's why she also someone special to me. She carry my dreams all along. 

To me...

The best kind of people are the ones that come into my life,

And make you see the sun where you once saw the clouds,

The people that believe in you so much, that make you start to believe in yourself too.

The people that love you for simply being you.

The once in a lifetime kind of people that will stay behind you no matter what..

That people is the one who are special to me..

-m-

 

The meet up

This entry is a bit personal. I write here for myself, so I wont forgotten the feeling that I had. I am gonna have a date with this special person tomorrow at 2pm. We have a date set up by my colleague. The 3 of us, we have a really great moments together back then. Due to commitment, we parted.

Actually, I am happy since we dont meet quite long, at the same time I am nervous looking forward for this meet up, because I am afraid I cant no longer hold my coolness in front of them. Either I talk a lot or less depending on  tomorrow's situation. I dont know which side of me that will be portrayed because the feeling is too overwhelming. I hope I am still me that they ever knew back then. I am sure tomorrow will be a very long day for me. 

Dearself, please pull yourself together and let loosen a bit yourself, it is okay for them to see another side of you. 

Terima kasih sahabat

Aku mungkin ramai kawan,

Tapi dikalangan kawan-kawan itu mereka yang aku hargai,

Dimana mereka aku gelarkan mereka sahabat,

Tentunya yang berkualiti dalam mengatasi kuantiti kawan2 tadi,

Sentiasa ada waktu suka dan duka,

Waktu sukar atau senang.

Jauh atau dekat,

Sahabat akan tahu itu tak pernah dijadikan alasan untuk kita tidak berhubung, 

Hatta kerap atau jarang-jarang,

Bertemu muka atau tidak,

Sentiasa akan cari masa dalam kesibukan untuk bertanya khabar dan kemas kini kehidupan masing2,

Namun tak pernah rasa tersinggung antara satu sama lain,

Sebab kita sentiasa bersatu dalam hati.

Bila bertemu muka atau berborak dalam telefon,

Pastinya masa tak pernah cukup,

Boraknya ntah apa2,

Sampai tak sedar masa cepat sangat berlalu,

Bila bercakap,

Walhal kasar bahasanya tapi tak pernah terasa,

Bila ditimpa kesedihan walau tidah diberi tahu,

Pasti dalam kalangan sahabat itu yang lebih psikiknya dapat menelah kesedihan itu,

Menjadi pendengar setia dan pakar nasihat,

Mungkin kadang kala nasihat itu tak sentiasa menyebelahi diri ini,

Tahu yang sahabat selalu mahukan yang terbaik untuk diri ini,

Secara tidak langsung kata-kata itulah kekuatan untuk bangkit dan membolehkan kita untuk mengukir senyuman semula,

Itulah ajaibnya sahabat.

Terima kasih sahabat,

Aku sentiasa doakan kalian sentiasa berada dalam rahmat dan redha Allah,

Sentiasa istiqmah dan berjaya dalam apa yang kalian ceburi,

Moga persahabatan ini kekal dunia dan akhirat.

Aku sayang kalian.

Nukilan asli daripada NORSYALINA RAMLI

 

Di kala buruk atau cantik pun kalian sentiasa ada😊😊

Urgent meet Up

One thing I love staying in Serdang because it is centre of everything especially when it comes on gathering with your favourite people, an unplanned ad hoc meet up!

I introduced you with some of my favourite people in my life mainly my study journey in UPM. Some of them have completed their masters, some of the almost completed their phD and some of them already qualified to call them "Dr"! There were ups and downs when it came to complete our studies. All of us have face them, and only our circling knew what difficulties we have fought! 

Although it was a very short meet up, a lot of thing and topics we have talked about like the old days. Though every one seems to have different path, we still stayed the same like our youth age. There were so much fun to have this meet up. Actually, we are celebrating our welcoming home party for Elisa (sitting next to blue hijjab lady in the picture), she already completed her doctorate study in Japan and will be flying to Japan back in one week later to continue her postgraduates study for 6 months and Tina (another person who held the cup cakes box) who was a birthday girl in that day. The gathering took place at our favourite dine restaurant, where we would have dine in once a week during our old days, Wong Solo!

There was a moment when we had a chat that reach to the point about life is short. This past few months, we already lost 3 friends that we knew during our degree. Although, we are not closed but we can felt the lost too. It reminded us we are close to dying. So, we need to spend our time wisely. Do what you wanted to do in your life less worrying about what's keeping you stop start doing it, but please make sure that it was worthwhile, so that if we died, we died virtuosly (devout by the name of Allah). 

And here, one of my crime partner to kill time already has kid and one is coming all the way to be born. These favourite and handsome two heroes (Aqil and Hariz) are the prove that woman are strong while studying they still can take care of their children and family. Our second generations will continue our legacy.

Ok, be alive and stay healthy!

The 3 of us!

Assalammualaikum dan salam sejahtera, peeps!

Here, the story about 3 of us begin...

We do knew each other during our bachelor degree study! We are coursemates. But we came form different girls' bunches. Tau-tau jek la kan, girl ni ada geng-geng, eg: set-set utara la, dak-dak johor la and so on. Budak-budak laki kosmet kteowg pelik, kenapa girls suka jalan-jalan and do everything in group! My jaw was like crumpled down sebab:

1) Ada dikalangan guys from our coursemates ni gender discriminate. Not all. No offense to other guys out there. Dowg kata yang girls ni puak-puak la, tak sepakat la, muafakat la. Bila ada nak event coursemate, yang girls' contribution much easier compare to the guys. Dowg tak sporting, duduk pun sama-sama geng. So, nampak tak kat situ sape yang gender discriminate? Orang-orang macam ni harus dibuang planet je, kuman bawah tapak kaki nampak, gajah depan mata tak nampak.

2) Girls ni memang kena jalan berjemaah, bahaya jalan sowg2 sebab kteowg kan mahluk yang lemah ditakuti ada mahluk yang bertopengkan manusia ni ambil kesempatan. Lagi satu, girl kalau jalan sowg, yang guys tak gentle ni berani pula mengushar. Tackle sowg2 tak pe la, ni tackle berjemaah. Apa, kowg ingat kteowg ni anak kucing?

3) Girls memang sifat semula jadi mereka kalau buat sesuatu tu suka berkongsi. Kerja ke assignment ke semua kalau dah split tugas senang siap. Tapi tau tak, kaum2 adam suka mengutuk tu juga la selalu nak pinjam assignment girls ni kalau tak siap. Nasib baik, member2 lelaki aku tak mcm tu sebab aku stok-stok buat assignment last minute, so dowg tak de peluang la nak pinjam. Haha!

Okay ni la pic kami bertiga. From left: Nor Azlina Md Zin, aku a.k.a M and Afifah Abdullah

Kisah awal perkenanlan dengan Nor Azlina Md. Zin a.k.a. Ina Soghomban

1st time aku jumpa dia aku ingat dia ni budak satu matrik ngan aku. Masa kitewog jd junior 1st year dulu, dia banyak join sukan kolej aku. Muka selamba dunno dia tu la menarik perhatian aku walaupun pada luarannya dia nampak pendiam. So, aku approached dia and aku tanya (macam aku nak ngorat dia la plak kan, hahaha) dulu Matrikulasi Gambang ke? Rupanya aku silap orang la pulak, dia budak Matrikulasi Perak rupanya. Takpe, aku memang tak malu. Malu tanya sosek jalan!
Ina ni geng dengan budak-budak lembut and ayu-ayu (yang kalau cakap pun halus jek suaranya, kalau gelak tutup mulut). Ramai yang konpius macam mana dia leh tersesat dalam geng tu. Selama beberapa tahun geng dengan dowg pun, ingatkan adalah sikit kelembuatan or keayuan tu meresap kat dia. Hurm, haram! Kiranya, kalau dalam geng tu dia taiko besar la. Haha. Masa finishing school, kteowg satu kumpulan. Aku ingat lagi masa tu ktewog ada mock interview. So, masa Ina di'interview', satu jawapan Ina yang aku ingat sampai sekarang ialah, "Women can do it!" dengan semangat, aku pun tak ingat dah soalan interviewer tu. Nak dipendekkan cerita, pengenalan aku ngan Ina ni berkesinambungan lepas abes degree dimana aku terus register jadi student postgraduates dan Ina jadi RA kepada supervisor Final Year Project dia. FYI, Ina extent 1 sem due to her injury when she represented her college in Intercollege Softball in our 3rd year. Kami jd roomate dengan member sowg lagi selama beberapa bulan dimana kami digelar geng nyamuk sebab setiap malam kteowg akan terjaga bunuh nyamuk beramai-ramai. Kalau dinding bilik orang lain warna putih, dinding bilik kteowg abstrak coreng-coreng kaler hitam and merah. Sungguh artistik. Pastu, Ina dapat offer jadi AO kat Risda Ampang. So, di situlah life and hala tuju masing-masing berubah.

Pic kat atas ni was taken in the IOI's Mall toilet. Memang dah jadi tradisi, kalau kteowg keluar, pic kat toilet ni dah menjadi kewajipan. That was Pipah and Me.

Kisah awal perkenanalan dengan Afifah Abdullah a.k.a Pipah

Waktu degree dulu aku tak berapa close dengan dia. Kebanyakan member dalam geng dia orang Utara (Kedah and Penang) so, kteowg gelarkan geng dia set-set Utara Besar sebab ada lagi yang geng-geng Utara lain (bilangan member dia kecil sikit and ayu). Geng dia memang ramai and dowg ni kebanyakan loud-type-girls la. Memang riuh sekampung kalau ada dowg ni, pening! Kalau nak tau gosip-gosip kosmet, dowg la informal dia. Dulu aku pernah join Kelanasiswa setahun, Pipah pun join. Tapi aku ngan dia tak pernah buat aktiviti Kelanasiswa sama-sama sebab aku ni ahli yang 'rajin' nak datang meeting Sabtu. Frankly speaking, masa awal-awal impression aku kat Pipah tak berapa baik sebab muka dia garang and macam sombong. Memandangkan roomate aku dulu, geng ngan dia secara tak langsung aku ngan dia selalu bump into each other la. But when you get to know her, she was nice, a little bit sensitive and blurred fella somehow! Cut it short, after degree dia pun jadi RA. Dah duduk sama kolej kan, so kteowg end up to get close. But then, she also left for the offer where she was recruited as a AO in DOA Putrajaya.

Aku pulak komplikated sikit sebab aku ni jenis easy-going. Senang cakap kalau aku kena hantar kat mana-mana pun aku boleh survive. Aku bergaul dengan semua orang. Inflisitnya, aku ada 2 geng. Geng campur and geng girls. Geng campur aku ni ada lelaki-lelaki and perempuan, that's why aku panggil geng mix. Macam mana kteowg leh end up together pon adalah sangat komplikated. Sesungguhnya hidup ni penuh dengan kebetulan yang memelikkan. Itu adalah sebab aku selalu jadi perantaraan kalau ada aktiviti kosmet. So, pelik la kalau budak-budak kosmet tak kenal ngan aku. Geng girls aku pulak kebetulan semua orang Johor. Actually ada satu lagi geng girls coming from Johor jugak. Tapi memandangkan apa-apa pun 2 geng ni selalu end up together kalau kena form group. So, tak la disctinct sangat split between 2 geng ni. Geng Johor ni quite feymes la sebab semuanya gila-gila, outspoken, very independence and leh tahan ganas walaupun kteowg cute! Haha

This is what we called a friend, ready to get the punch! Hehe..

We coming from the different gang, different background, different history but we can still build the friendship bridge between 3 of us and it lasting until now! Once a month or two month, we get to catch up with each other updates about ourselves. Before we went to different path, our life was so perfect without any worries of life ahead us and it was joyful. We shared sorrow and happiness together, to understand and to be understood! That's the beauty of every friendship that we valued and treasured them most!











My dear Ina and Pipah

Don't walk behind me, I may not lead,
Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow,
Just walk beside me and be my friend,

coz I find it better to walk with u guys in the dark rather than walking alone in the light
I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for the handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joys,
You, friend! make life a lot more fun!
Thanks for being a true friend who is always there for me when you would be anywhere else!
Lots of love to you both!

" Be slow to fall into friendship, but when thou art in, continue firm and constant!"

Thoughts: Truly sorry if you find me being too mean and selfish, guys!

Tribune 3: The tie of the 2 hearts (Shelly and Epul)

Assalammualaikum and annyeonghaseyo, people!

How do u do? Hopefully, you people out there are doing great! Great health, great body, great mind, great job, great time, great income and might be great spending tooo. Hehehe

This entry will be my last sequel about my sister's wedding. So, I just wanna try to make it short and simple entry. Hopefully (bear wif me)! Although it was drizzling that day, the wedding reception ceremony went smoothly according to the plan. Thank you to those who spending their precious time to attend the reception ceremony, participating in sharing big and happy day of groom and bride. We appreciated it!

Here, I wrote a poem to my beloved sister and my bro-in-law:

Growing up I've learnt about love,

I've been received and surrounded by it everyday,

And I'm so glad that you've both find it,

That's is why we are here today,

To celebrate the glorious of the love that tie between the 2 hearts.

They say there's secret to a happiness marriage,

And rules to obey,

But the most important rules of love,

Are what are you two everyday here onward.

It's the "hi" in the morning,

It's how she makes his tea,

It's the way he smiles at her,

Such a sweet simple thing to see.

It's never being too old to hold hands,

or, to watch movies on the couch,

It's accepting all the flaws,

Even when the other's a grouch.

It's telling him he's not going grey (although he looked like one, hehehe),

It;s the "You look fine in those outfits",

It's ignoring the mid-life crisis,

and all her little "scenes" (woman such a complicated and mysterious creature, hehehe).

It's about facing the world as one,

And it's more than love at first sight,

It's being together as a family,

Each and every day and night.

It's the way he looks into her eyes,

and the way she looks back too,

It's why they stand before us,

and it's why they said they want to spend the rest time together,

Nothing is sweeter than the togetherness we share.

And now I stand before both of you here today,

On this important moment in life,

With two important people that very in love,

Which being pronounced as husband and wife.

Growing up I've learnt about love,

witnessed and seeing it today,

Proves the love is true before my eyes,

Not just in love stories book that I've read,

And I'd be lucky to be part as happy as you both,

May your love and marriage lasting happily and eternally till hereafter,

Congratulation!

The happiness moments that we shared together will be a part of our memory

Okay, enough for lovey-dovey and touching moments. It's by far my style. Hehehe. Okay lately, I've also received lots of love from dear friends and people that important in my life. My life be blessed and rejoiced, Alhamdullillah! 

Received this from Mr. G, a souvenir from Kelantan. So thoughtful, sweet and nice choice, though. 

These Bandung T-shirt and Travelling telekung given by Kak Aiza and Min from Bandung Indonesia. Supposedly, I will be joined them but due to my Sister's wedding, I've been left out. Hehehe.

Thank you, guys! Heart you so much. ~________^

Okay, let's end this. It's not that I'm too old and ran out of this idea to write more and more. I'm just too worried that I will be turned out another 1 year older another couple of hours. Hate to count! Can I make a wish that I could stop the time and all the number-thingy from growing increase~sigh~ Haha, It's just a number, Norsyalina. No worries! The more important, stay youth and happy. Stay Peace!

Ad HOC girls played out

Assalammualaikum dan salam 1 Malaysia, pals!

Entri ni dah sebulan jugak la aku biarkan sepi dalam draft posts aku dengan alasan "still under construction". Aku nak jugak post sebab aku rasa worthy untuk dikongsi dengan kalian tentang aktiviti kiteowg buat masa hangouts. Maklumlah masing-masing sibuk dengan karier dan study, susah nak set date untuk lepak. Thus, ad hoc plan jugak yang menjadi.

Sepatutnya, plan asalnya ialah mendaki Bukit Broga di Semenyih tetapi disebabkan hujan pada sebelah malamnya sehingga menimbulkan keraguan salah seorang ahli pendaki dikhuatiri laluan trak licin makanya secara automatik plan mendaki tersebut dibatalkan. Walaubagaimanapun, atas persetujuan ahli lembaga plan tersebut digantikan dengan plan lain iaitu disco rollerskating di The Wheels, Subang Avenue Shopping Mall (tak de la banyak shop yang buka pun dekat Mall ni sebab tu sesuai Mall ni dijadikan spot untuk sukan ni).

<Here the details about the place and the activity>

The Wheels Roller Skating Disco Subang,
Lot S4.01, Subang Avenue Shopping Mall
Facebook: www.facebook.com/wheels.roller.skating

Opening hours: 11 a.m. - 10 p.m.
Saturdays and Public Holiday: 10. a.m. -12 p.m.
1st time entry including membership registration's fee: RM 25 (unlimated skating duration per entry, nextime visit will be RM20)
Theme: Disco rollerskating
Types of skates: Inline skates (ada 2 jenis untuk normal and beginner) and quad roller skates (ada 4 roda advisable for new stage beginner).

Watak-watak utama, dari kiri: Ina anak Pak Zain, M (aku), Farah a.k.a F2F dan pipah.

Kalau kowg tengok pic tu pun tau lighting tempat ni dime jek kan and cam disko tapi bukan disko yang org duk lepak joget2 tu tau. Tempat dia punya theme, mmg ala-ala disko including lagu-lagu die. Best!

Ina, Farah and me (already experienced the roller skating a long time ago), it took awhile for us to stabilize our figures and motions but for Pipah (1st time experiencing the roller skating) it took quite a time. Bagi beginner, pihak penaja tempat ini berbesar hati telah menyediakan palang-palang di tepi untuk penyesuaian pergerakan kestabilan diri kowg (tiada personal trainer provided, harap maklum).

Pose tak leh nak tinggal. Apa yang penting mesti menang bergaya! Tempat yang kitewog pose tu bukan tempat berehat tapi adalah salah satu "land" bagi skater yang mmg power buat skating tricks dowg.

Bak kata Pipah, "Ko la mmg kawan sejati, M". Sebab aku sayang ko Pipah, merangkak sama-sama, jalan sama-sama, skating pon nak la sama-sama.

Tada! Jatuh pon nak sama-sama kan Ina. Hehe, kalau nak tau kawan sehidup semati kowg time kowang jatuh, siapa yang ada di sisi kowang untuk kowg bangun tu la is YOUR TRUE FRIEND! (I bet dia mesti terharu kalau terbaca post ni sambil senyum kambing sowang2, I know u there, ina. hehehe). Sangat sweet okay moment ni sebab Ina betulkan akunyer roller skate. Kowang ader? haha

See, betapa bahagianya dia terjatuh sebab dia tahu aku ada untuk bangunkan dia. Sooooo sweet kan, u olls!

Bila dah terer skating, kiteowg berempat ada buat wheel skating keretapi sambil pegang pinggang member masing (of course aku la org plg last sekali sebab touch sensitivity yang sangat kronik) lead by Ina sebanyak 2-4 kali round. Kowg akan amazed sebab banyak teenagers kat sini yang sangat hebat ber'roller-skating' dengan aksi yang super cool. It's a good and wise spending your free time with this activity. Good job, adik-adik sekalian! Dalam pusat skating ni jugak prasarana seperti toilet, gerai makanan dan minuman ringan dan tidak lupa SURAU (so, tak ada alasan untuk tidak menunaikan kewajipan okay). Setelah 4-5 jam kitewod kat situ, kiteowg blah sebab perut kelaparan minta disuakan makanan. Dah skip lunch ni (tak elok untuk kesihatan ye adik-adik).

Atas kata sepakat membawa muafakat, kitewog decide makan kat Sunway Pyramid dan cari kedai makan yang serve Korean cuisine. So, sampai la kiteowg ke Ko Hyang, Sunway Pyramid (Halal korean food servings, third floor if not mistaken). Yang best makanan korean ni sebab food serving dowg fresh, less oily and easily digested. Healthy food leads to healthy body and life-style! Harga dia pun okay and afffordable for student like me.

Yummylicious! Before and after, licin ko! Mak mertua tengok pon takut la. Hehehe

Maintain sopan sebelum menjamah

Dah start menjamah lupa semua adat kesopanan orang-orang Melayu dah hilang. Hehehe

2nd year anniversary Ina with her LEMON. Tiada apa yang berubah, kan kan kan!

Kat toilet pon jadik la. It is a true art! Hahaha

Sangkeng jugak minah yang baju kotak-kotak tu nak interframed. Ader Ku kisah!! Hehehe

Dah penat melantak, sambung bersukan lagi. Memanah di Star Archery, Sunway Pyramid (top floor, ader bowling centre and cinema kat floor ini jugak). This time Ina and Pipah surrendered. So, battle diteruskan oleh Farah and me. 24 arrows for RM12 if i'm not mistaken. 

Nanti ada staff yang akan tolong demonstrate the right way to shoot the archery. Gaya dah macam pro, tapi tapi shoot melencong gak. Maklumlah, memang dah kejadian maha pencipta bahawa kaum hawa tangannya die ciptakan bengkok sedikit supaya nampak lebih sopan penampilannya.

Kalau dah ada 4 kepala, kalau bercakap sakan tak hengat dunia. Last ended up ngan kekeringan di kerongkong masing-masing. Makanya, kiteowg nampak  Stick house, terus meluru ke situ macam semut hurung gula.

Stick house ni dia jual aiskrim stick banyak flavour and boleh pilih toppings sekali. For more details sila-sila lawat www.facebook.com/stickhouse-malaysia. Siapa yang sangat fussy dengan dietarynya, aiskrim servings jenis ni kowg tak perlu nak khuatiri sebab rendah cholesterol. Tapi aku tak kisah, yang penting sedap and comel. Hahaha

Penat sangat ke Ina sampai makan bertampung.

Muka tak puas hati Farah & Pipah terhadap aku. Sori guys, lama tak buli orang.

Malam tu kiterowg overnight kat rumah kediaman Pipah di Putrajaya. Memandangkan sehari suntuk kiteowg hangouts, energy dan drained out mintak dicaskan. So kiteowg membuta dengan tenangnya malam itu. Esok pagi kene bangun awal sebab masing-masing ada agenda tersendiri. Pipah janji nak masakkan taufu cina and aku secara tak sengaja dicalonkan untuk buat nasi goreng kampung.

dan hasilnya...tada!!!!

yang penting sedap hingga menjilat jari tanpa membasuhnya. Pravo Pipah and M.. (puji diri sendiri tak boleh blah)

Okay, that's it! Malas dah nak taip, end of the limit dah ni. Enjoy, reading, pals. Quote for today:

"The best kind of friend is the one who you could sit on the porch swing with, never saying a word, and walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've ever had."

and I am proudly to say, I have them in my life journey collections. If you want to own one, you better start doing one. Stay confident and wise, people! ^_^

Tie a Knot in Feb 2012

Assalammualaikum dan salam 1 Malaysia, Peeps!!

How you guys being doing? Erk, macam awkward jek nak start entri kali ni sebab dah hampir 2 bulan tak update blog. Hahaha, bukan nama Norsyalina la kalau rajin update (sape setuju kenyit mata 2 kali). Ni la problem kalau muscle and body tak cooperate dengan mind. Dah set dalam mind, konon nak update entri sekian sekian sekian, tapi penyudahnya wassalam. Sepi! Bak kata tagline pengguna yang dah terlebih modified, "Kemahuan melebihi keupayaan", camtu la lagaknya. Ape pon tak boleh!

Memandangkan jangka masa 2 bulan tu boleh dikatakan agak lama (kalau tanam padi bukit, dah beranak pinak la tillers padi tu), so aku highlighted event yang penting dalam bulan Februari terus iaitu Wedding Reception dikalangan member-member aku. Maklumlah, umur pon bukan lagi muda (please excluded me for this statement, hahha), bagi kawan-kawan seangkatan yang dah puas hidup membujang dan bersedia untuk memikul tanggungjawab dan komitmen selain dengan diri sendiri dan karier, dowg dah mengambil langkah untuk menapak ke peringkat yang seterusnya dalam kehidupan iaitu berkahwin. Alhamdulillah! Dipendekkan cerita, banyak la dapat kad jemputan, hampir setiap minggu ada undangan, siap ada yang clashed date lagi. (Fuiyo, berpeluh aku nak decide nak gi yang mana) 

Here, i want to make my personal wish to my dear friend who tied a knot in February:

1) Miss A.R & husband (4th feb)

Sorry, Ameera can't make it to attend your big day coz my cousin's wed happened to be on the same day. Congratz, babe! You looked gorgeous

2) Ms Liyana & Amiri (10th Feb)

Yana, my nyamuk gang, Congratz! I'll kept our memories fresh and tight. Fall in love with your wedding theme. So sweet!

3) Ms. Nana & Firdaus (18th Feb)

Sorry, Nana can't make it to your wedding. :'( Neway, congratz both of you, may your love eternally

4) Miss En & husband (25th Feb)

Congratz, N! May your marriage give u a momentum to finish ur phD soon. I'm proud of you!

5) Shafeeqa & Amin (26th Feb)

Sorry, Shafeeqa for not being there at your wedding. Both of you looked perfect together ^^,

6) Syukri & Huda (26th Feb)

My dear bestie, Syukri...congratz! Jaga Huda baik-baik...

With my wishes:

May your marriage be filled with all the right ingredients: a heap of love, a dash of humor, a touch of romance, and a spoonful of understanding. May your joy last forever..

Here, i invented a secret recipe special for u all:

Wedding Cake Recipe

Ingredients:

1/2 lb good looks
1lb sweet temper
1lb butter of youth
1lb blindness of faults
1lb of wit
1lb good humour
2lb of sweet argument
1 pint of rippling laughter
1 glass of common sense
a dash of modesty

Steps: Put the love good looks and a sweet temper into a well furnished house.
Beat the butter of youth into a cream,
and mix well together with the blindness of faults.
Stir the wit and good humour into the sweet argument
then add the rippling laughter and common sense.
Work the whole thing together until everything is well mixed,
and bake gently forever.

Below is a video specially dedicate to u

<please click link below to watch the video>

Tie a Knot February 2012 Wedding

(hope you enjoyed watching this vid)

Kadang-kadang rasa macam tak percaya jek member-member kita yang dulu main getah, kejar-kejar, ponteng kelas sama-sama dan dot dot dot dah kawan dan beranak pinak. Aku dok la sibuk tanya orang, "ko plak bila nak kahwin?" mcm tak sedar diri plak kan (hahaha, gelak guling-guling sebab rasa aku cam muda lagik). Kalau org tanya aku soalan cepu emas tu, aku jawab, " Insyallah, bulan 5", jawapan tu dah sehabis baik general aku bagi, sebab aku tak tau bulan 5 tahun ni ke, tahun depan ke, tahun 2015 ke. I don't know what the future holds. But i'm always trying to give the best! Siapa tak nak kawen & ada baby? Bak kata kawan aku, "kalau ikut gatal, dah kawen dah aku ni". Bagi aku, aku kejar priority yang aku dreamt for dulu. IF in between to achieve that priority, rezeki & jodoh aku dah tiba, I'll accept it dengan lapang dada. Benda baik elok dipercepatkan.

Okay, I think enough of this entry. See you in the next update. Stay happy and peace, guys!