Random: Taurus Girl vs Virgo Boy

Salam and Good-day, peeps 😁!

When I sneaked into my FB account I found this very random status on the super compatible pairing based on zodiac sign. Please be reminded, I am a Muslim and not a person who rely on zodiac readings and by far to believe it at all. This is just for fun since it related to my zodiac (Taurian) and someone  related to me (Virgan). The astrology make some counting and verdict that both Taurian and Virgan fall in the same element which is an Earth element and this pairing is said to have an easy-going and familiar relationship. I cant help myself to smile, not because to agree or disagree with the so-called pairing but more likely to agreed that what was explained about us individually. I think there is a logic reasons why a Taurian and Virgan make a super compatible partner because we are so different yet the difference that make us to complete each other. However, we, individually that holds the character and character is something that can be changed over time. That's make the zodiac sign readings seems irrelevant to me. Like I said, it is just for fun. 

 

 

There is a wise quote on relationship that seems relevant to every relationship that make it long lasting that I want to hold onto:

Learn to ACCEPT the goods and flaws of our partner, 

not TOLERATE because TOLERANCE have certain degree to be hold.

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I've been witnessing a lots of happy long lasting husband and wife, 

it is not always a romantic couple of all times, 

not a couple that always see a rainbow without thunderstorm,

also not a couple who just walk away from the hard times,

but..

They are the couples that sometimes argued with each other although to a small little things,

and they keep on annoyed to each other..

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The important things are what make them stay in LOVE with each other:

Do APOLOGIZE first not because you are wrong but you VALUE the relationship than your EGO,

Do ENCOURAGE each other during HARD TIMES,

TALK about the problems, NOT IGNORE them,

Do TRUST, HONEST and RESPECT each other to let each other GROW,

and REMEMBER that it is always US not YOU/ME in relationship.

May ALLAH bless US with an ETERNAL HAPPY LIFE here and hereafter. AMIN! 

The meet up 2

~ continuation of the first meet up~

Alhamdulillah, the meet up with the special person perfectly going well. Yes, a bit nervous at first glad no tears coming out but just happy moments till the end. My colleague and I went to pick this special person at this special person's home with my colleague's new own car. Then, we decided to have a lunch date at The Loaf, Mitsui Outlet. I can see every one of us miss each other. We sat there eating while having a long chatting updating our lives, really reminishing our old times. 

This special person to me is Puan Zabedah. Tumirin. We called Puan Zabedah as well. She was once our lab assistant officer until last year. It is totally different when she wasnt around. When her last day her in the last, I wasnt around to send her off, I just cant be there because I'm not good in say goodbye to someone I love. The good part is, her home wasnt that far from here, she stayed in Dengkil but as a retiree she's busy travelling around. She was like a mother to me. My late mother knew her as well. She has come visited my late mother when she was hospitalized and attended my sister's wedding. She can be a great advicer, listener, best friend, partner in crime and many more. That is why she is someone special to me. Plus, we shared same character and she thinks simple but realistic, and I think I am her prodigy 🤗 in terms of that. 

 

Puan Zabedah is the one in the middle obviously, she looked like chinese but she doesnt have chinese blood in her, she is javanese. Most of the time when we went out together, i was mistaken as her daughter. Indeed, I am not by blood, of course 😂.

The other person at the back was my colleague a.k.a my comrade, Adibah Mohd Amin. We believed Allah bring us together for some purposes, we are totally different in every way except for sarcastic, last minute doer, and brainer 😁 but yet we just blended well as a comrade. We first met at Pahang Matriculation College during our sport activities. To me, she's different kind. I love people who are different from others, my curiosity wanting me to explore her character. She knew me because we were staying at the same block but different floor. I dont have good friends in my practical class or lecture, but my good friend was my other 2 roommates, Sabrina and Uma. Most of the time, we did things together except for classes, we were not in the same practical class or lecture, luckily. The three of us was famous among students in that blocks. We kind of naughty, loud, crazy, so every night the guards would knocked at our door to make us silent  😂but believe me, despite of all those we were always be references to other student when they have problems in subjects. Maybe because of that, Adibah already knew me. Then, we were destined to be meet again during our bachelor degree, phD and now. She already passed her Viva and        enrolled her Doctorate degree before me, and I am happy for that. Though we are different but we always support each other. She said want to get on the stage with me next year to take the scroll, I knew she was waiting for me but I cant help it since it wasnt my share to funish viva same as her, but I promise to myself and her, Insha Allah I will follow her step soon. Next year we will be in the same stage, Adibah. I said to her, " somehow, might be my future career will be not same as we planned earlier (lecturer+researcher) but, please continuing to serve the future genereation because there is my dream in your, you knew that I love the field but I am not the way who have right to make it real, Allah is, but one thing to be sure you always can come to me for any matter, Adibah!". I said it right towards her, and I know she was sad to hear that one from me, I said it because I believed she's going to be a great person in her own stage as a lecturer and researcher without me. That's why she also someone special to me. She carry my dreams all along. 

To me...

The best kind of people are the ones that come into my life,

And make you see the sun where you once saw the clouds,

The people that believe in you so much, that make you start to believe in yourself too.

The people that love you for simply being you.

The once in a lifetime kind of people that will stay behind you no matter what..

That people is the one who are special to me..

-m-

 

The meet up

This entry is a bit personal. I write here for myself, so I wont forgotten the feeling that I had. I am gonna have a date with this special person tomorrow at 2pm. We have a date set up by my colleague. The 3 of us, we have a really great moments together back then. Due to commitment, we parted.

Actually, I am happy since we dont meet quite long, at the same time I am nervous looking forward for this meet up, because I am afraid I cant no longer hold my coolness in front of them. Either I talk a lot or less depending on  tomorrow's situation. I dont know which side of me that will be portrayed because the feeling is too overwhelming. I hope I am still me that they ever knew back then. I am sure tomorrow will be a very long day for me. 

Dearself, please pull yourself together and let loosen a bit yourself, it is okay for them to see another side of you. 

Extraordinary Comfort Zone

Last weekend, I attended my cousin's solemnization and wedding. Normally, people at my age who are still single, will feel pressure and worried attending ceremony of their friends or younger relatives that overstepping them and getting married before them, afraid being asking about why they are still single, when are their turn and the questions go on and on. But not to me, I never bother about that. When people asking, I simply answered, "confirmed it will be Saturday or Sunday", or "when you see my name on the card, that's the day" (with the most sweet smile). Sometimes, I jokes around, if it my destiny call for me to get married tomorrow, i'll getting married tomorrow. 

Makcik2 and pakcik2,  getting married is not like we go on shopping and buying stuff, we select, pay and they are ours. Makcik2 and pakcik2, u have been there right and your experiences far more piles up than us, please be more considerate and understanding will you 😏. Dont make people like us feel like attending such ceremony as a burden to us that can widen the gap of our relationship. It's not like we like to be single all the time, gile x nak kahwin kot makcik2 and pakcik2. I voice out this phenomenon on behalf of my friends out there. 

I just enjoy be part of the people who attending the ceremony as long as I have my family to accompany. And I really have a great time. 

 

Me and my close relative waiting before the solemnization ceremony started

 

My cousin, Fatin and her husband, Syafiq on their wedding day. Congrat, couzie!

 

A few of Omar and Azizah's generation with the bride and groom

 

Duck mouth! Like grandpa like granddaughter

 

Me and my baby brother, the only sibs attended the ceremony 

 

With hot single cousins (macam umur sebaya kan 😂)

 

More wefie from us (sila tahan 😱)

 

 

With aunt tersayang (konfius sekejap ingatkan Datuk CT 😍)

 

With aunt also,we are at same age. She already have 2 children. Lama xjumpe makcik ni

 

With my elder niece, Airish

 

Hahaha, many pics of me and Airish being together. Mmg hot mess sgt budak ni tau

 

 

Actually, I am very glad that Airish was around with me during the solemnization and wedding ceremony. Why? Because it found it comfortable from those guys' naughty stares nak masuk line. At least when they saw me with Airish while holding the botol susu, they will think I am married woman, hahahhaha 👨‍👩‍👧. But, ada jugak terlepas jelingan nakal lelaki walaupun Airish was around. Mgkin penampilan belum macam ibu2 kot, cis!

Sincerely, I was comfortable with kids around because I just hate those stares from the guys. It's not like jual mahal, I believed I was meant for someone who worth enough for me, those stares meant nothing to me. That's Allah's call. 

  

 

My new comfort zone, be around kids. 

If someone was meant for you, he will gravitate back to you, no matter how far he wander! So, what's the rush 🤗

Single and clever, are you?

https://brightside.me/inspiration-relationships/scientists-found-out-why-clever-people-find-it-difficult-to-fall-in-love-215655/

Pagi tadi, aku terbaca status member aku  artikel pasal kat atas ni, "why clever people find it difficult to fall in love". Mula2 aku ingat ada scientific explanation or proven based on statistical data. So, artikel ni tarik minat aku untuk baca sebelum aku rasa it deserve my 'like' button. Bagi aku, aku tak akan simply baca tajuk untuk 'like', aku akan go through the contents sbb untuk karang even sebaris ayat perlukan effort, so please appreciate to read till the end of the content, then it's up to you la nak share or like or give any comments about it. Ni rata2 baca tajuk dah gelebah konon tau cerita sebenar. What the fish!! Dont judge the book by its cover, thus dont simply judge if you dont know the whole strory (sadly it is happening to many people nowadays, that's is why i just love to write in my blog compared to my IG or FB).

Ok, back to the main story pasal entri ni, apa yang dijangka tidak tertera. No scientific explanation or proven, just a mere explanation with a little bit psycological proven. Well, not all clever people are single and not all single are single. Hahaha, being single and clever at the same time are only gifted person though. Angkat tangan siapa yang nak being single je sepanjang masa? Pada siapa kita nk share cerita dan perasaan yang kita lalui hari2, layan kerenah kita? Takkan dengan kawan perempuan kita je. I believed that every person dah tercatat perjalanan hidup di Luh Mahfuz, and it will changed only by Allah's will. So, in my point of view, apa2 yang melibatkan masa depan, jodoh, perasaan dan kematian, xda satu formula atau model serta scientifically explain those things. 

Tak payah bg cerita orang lain, dalam hidup aku mmg belum pernah jatuh cinta dengan lelaki. Tapi setakat crush dalam drama and realiti kehidupan tu memang ada (zaman remaja ye) hanya sekadar memenuhi masa2 senggang yang ada untuk benda2 lagha, no hard feeling. Sbb aku rasa bercinta zaman tu is such wasting of time zaman remaja kau, dan obviously aku percaya pada jodoh. Observation aku ttg orang lain bercinta dan disakiti, well lebih byk cons daripada pros. Mental kena kuat, sebab bagi aku pemerhatian ak bagi cinta waktu tu macam perjudian, dimana hati jadi taruhan. Paling aku admired, orang yang senang jatuh cinta walupun disaliti banyak kali. Hati ko mmg diperbuat daripada diamond (the most hard mineral in the world) barangkali. So in that sense, aku cuba elakkan  from any intimate relationship. Bukan xda yang tawarkan diri untuk dekat and kenal lebih intim, it's just me who afraid to be hurt and broken. Yeah, that's so being clever because you know and love yourself better. Yeah, that's written in the article about why clever people find it difficult to fall in love.

Tapi x selamanya dalam peringkat hidup aku cuba mengelak untuk terima orang lain dalam hidup aku. Memandangkan aku ni jenis yang susah nak rapat dengan lelaki, so mmg perlukan masa untuk percaya dengan orang lelaki dan serasi. Dan kawan lelaki yang rapat ngan aku tu mmg boleh dipercayai dan serasi dimana kebanyakannya mmg aku boleh rapat sebab masing2 dan ada pasangan (nampak x betapa secure nya aku terhadap diri sendiri, aku konfiden xkan fall in love punya). Fast forward, macam mana secure perasaan pon kalau dah ditetapkan Allah kau fall in love ngan bestfriend ko sendiri pun tak boleh nak elakkan juga. Yang part ni unik sikit, bukan sebab apa, aku getting close ngan dia pon masa tu pun dia dah ada awek dan mmg konfiden xkan lebih drpd friend zone.  In the middle of our close friendship, dia broke up ngan awek dia dan aku tau detailed jugak la macam mana dia broke up. Ikutkan logik kalau sayang, boleh jek teruskan as long as dua dua pihak agreed to so. Kalau tak masa kan ad quote, cinta tak semesti dimiliki. Well, as I said earlier bila bab perasaan ni belum ada reference, formula atau model yang boleh dirujuk dan ada penerangan yang jeles. Kalau ada pakar atau doktor cinta punya philosophy pon tak boleh apply penyelesaian pada masalah cinta semua orang, depend on situation dan faktor2 lain. 

Something happen in between our close relationship, keluar dari friend zone. Yes, i'm taking risk here and open my heart for this close friend. Tapi decision tu aku ambil mudah, banyak yang aku consider, byk yang aku jadikan reference serta buat solat tahajjud, istikharah and hajat untuk taking step into this non friend zone! Alhamdulillah, dipermudahkan seolah2 he's my other half. As the relationship going on well, something seems missing to me. Something yang aku pon xtau apa, sampai la aku confront him better to stop whatever expectation we had in future and stays as best friend. Actually nothing happen in our relatioship, everything just fine but i had to deal with something yang missing tu. I am glad that i confronted him about the relationship, i found the missing pieces. I just feel bad that I used provocation on him as an excuse that was not supposed to bring out. I really dont meant to hurt him that way, because I already broken to make a decision that way. One fine day, I'll tell him that he did really sepanjang tempoh hubungan tersebut and I want to thankful to him for understanding me as a cracked full of flaw and being a great companion till now. Hahaha, sebab dia pun cracked and banyak flaw gak. Tapi tu la, ada banyak dalam life yang terjadi ni xboleh dijelaskan, it just happen, ada yang just stop there and ada yang get twisted and ada yang akan discover soon. 

Orang macam aku, full of curiousity dalam hidup sangat tahu yang tak semua persoalan tu boleh dijawab oleh mana2 orang bijak pandai atau reference sekali pun. Tapi satu yang aku yakin, Only The Almighty Allah know all answers. To find the missing pieces, aku mesti berusaha lebih mendekati Allah, sandarkan pengharapan, jiwa dan jasad aku pada Allah, so He can answer my curiousity and prayer. Alhamdulillah, I find the peace in my heart, mind and soul. 

Siapa boleh bagitahu aku apa itu cinta? Define Love? I'm sure definisi cinta berbeza pada setiap orang. Sebab cinta adalah persepsi yang punya preference kpd setiap orang. Tapi kat sini aku nak perbetulkan statement, kalau lelaki rasa tulang rusuk bergetar bile nampak perempuan, tu bukan tandanya perempuan tu jodoh ye. Itu peringatan tundukkan pandangan sebab time tu syaitan mainkan peranan cucuk hati kowg. Ni pesanan ustaz. Dan Hawa dijadikan daripada tulang rusuk kiri adam sewaktu tidur pun adalah hadis palsu ya. Dulu belajar hadis pun tak pernah come across dengan hal ni. Correct me if i'm wrong. Perkaitan pasal tulang rusuk dalam Al-Quran pon berkaitan pasal perempuan ni macam tulang rusuk, nak luruskan dia kene patahkan dia. 

As for me, Love is a sacred beautiful thing. Love is not hurtful and make us difficult, Lust is! But all the way to gain love, there is pain because it worth enough to be appreciate by the true person. That's my definition of love and it apply to living and non living thing that I loved. Jadi, urusan jodoh tu it never bother me anymore. Aku sandarkan pada Allah dan improve diri untuk be better from time to time untuk dapatkan keredhaan Allah. Kalau nak terbaik untuk jodoh kau, kau kena be better gak. Itu pun usaha kan. Mungkin jodoh aku mmg dengan my bestfriend, mgkin masanya belum tiba. Mungkin jodoh aku mmg dah dekat dengan cuma tak crossing path lagi sebab belum tiba masa lagi (sebab Jodoh kan tak kemana, dekat la dengam kita). And mungkin jugak jodoh aku di Syurga bukan di dunia ni. Whatever it is, aku sentiasa dia aku nak jadi Ainul Mardhiah di dunia dan akhirat untuk bakal zaujah aku, sehingga ketua bidadari Syurga pun cemburu dengan kecantikan dan segala serbi pada kita, hanya untuk my zaujah je, semoga Allah peliharakan hati dan pandangan mata beliau untuk aku je yang boleh sama2 bimbing aku dan zuriat keturunan ke jalan keredhaan Allah. I lost nothing in this way, kalau letak pengharapan pada Allah. Berharap selain dari Allah selalunya akan kecewa kan. Ingat Allah yang pegang hati kita.

Thus, single atau married, clever or dumb that's not matter. When you’re falling in love, you never notice it until you’ve already hit the ground.

—Terry Mark

Unique Relationship: Hijrah Cinta

Inspired by true stories..

This is the stories about this guy and girl, unaware of each other existence become friend and then a best friend! As a single guy and a single girl, they are always mistaken by others as a couple or a lover. It is always a taboo accordingly to unknown common people love relationship book reference, they normally end up as one-sided love or fall for each other. But in their stories, it is a little bit complicated, and fast forward let say they end up to have this out of best friend zone as 'future relationship goal' as agreed by both parties where they found this is a way better than those unfuturistic relationship. 

Time passed, there was elements of very little romance but yet a lots of unknown pressures taken place in their futuristic relationship goal but not as best friendship they had! (Confious?? Let's keep reading.. That is not the highlighted part). As we can predict, their not going so well relationship end up also under agreement for both parties and back together as best friend. 

In normal scenario, can they be as best friend just like before? 

Since the guy had the same experienced before, he expected that the girl will leave him and their best friendship seems to imposibble and afraid that the girl will hated him for what had happened. Like other failure in relationship, people will blamed the guy for it. Buy he valued their relationship same as the girl. They had a real talk over the phone that night when they agreed to end that futuristic relationship. 

In most scenario, the girl will hated for the guy and leave him behind, and moved on!

Yes, the girl moved forward on her life for that not really going well relationship but stay as his best friend. This is what she want to tell the guy!

You did great after all this while!

And thank you, boy..

There is a time i felt regret sending the emails bragging over this not going well relationship,  the feeling you had for me and so on..

And your replied on the untold story on your past, unsettled one..it sound familiar to me as i predicted, 

Was the ground reason that you cant have heart for me though you hv tried as referred to you.. 

That was what my ears heard, 

But my mind and heart says otherwise,

The untold story was true but why i dont think that was the not totally the ground reason, 

Your past make you feel half hearted on this relationship, 

And..

Why i think you lied when you told me you dont have feeling for me,

Because i still can feel the love but not the warmth one, 

You sent the cold one,

You hold in and keep your feeling,

Being secure and guarded up around me,

May be you afraid of hurting.. I think..

But whatever it is,

It dont matter me much..

You and me have put efforts on it to make it really work,

But I dont being fair to you..

The reason i wanted to end all these because i dont find inner peace in my life anymore,

Everything i did seems to be wrong,

I lost my true self,

In the middle of trying to make the relationship work, 

I forget that what really works in your life is the only Creator of the universe, Allah SWT..

I did less and less on my tahajud, Quran and Yasin recital, my dua become shorten after solat..

Allah is the Most Gracious and Forgiven,

To Him i should return to,

He become my priority, 

I want to find back my inner peace, 

My true self,

Once i felt that you are the one who destined to be my imam and zaujah which have been written in Luf Mahfuz,

I believe It might be still..when the right time come despite all those preferences that we had for our future partner,

But what the most matter,

Allah is the Greatest Planner,

He is the one who hold our hearts,

That's His secret,

In order to have a great zaujah you have to be one too..

Alhamdulillah i found my inner peace i've searching for all this while..

Thank you for understanding and accept me for who I am..

I also want to hear that you said,

"You did great, girl!" too.

How can the girl hates the guys because the special bonded they had from the beginning as best friend!

This song delivered the rest of the stories

https://youtu.be/2DbHkjX-C1E

And this is the girl's favourite novel where it was then inspired into movie before she getting know the boy!

Always her favourite, why?

Watch it then you will understand

http://youtu.be/xH51h2Bf9ao

Tutor Class 1: Thing that Men really wish Woman Knew

Assalammualaikum and Bonjour!!

Hi, guys. I came across an article about what Men really wish We (women) Knew which I found it very interesting and wanna shared with you girls out there! And for dude, don't get offended about this article and freely to give your arguments and comment if you feel offended, hehehe! Frankly speaking, I have many good friends from the opposite sex (i mean boys) and by coincidence, I got to know a little bit their man-side that quite distinguish from the girls and still observing about it. Let's see what most of the dude really want us (women) to know:

1. Time flies when you're a man: 

"For men, time goes by faster than for women. Einstein tried to explain this with his theory of relativity and I think it was all about trying to get along with his wife. So, the next time a guy doesn't call or text a girl back right away or it's been two weeks since he last said 'I love you,' just remember that it doesn't mean he doesn't care it, it just means that time passes differently for him."- I fully agreed with this one, hahhaha-

2. They think that women are more powerful:

"In that single moment when you glance in our direction, we lock eyes, and all we feel is our heart beating through your chest, you have us. And there is absolutely nothing we can do about it!"-This was so true-

3. Confidence is sexier than any lingerie:

"Men already love your body as it is but when you're confident, it's even more of a turn on! Along those lines…lingerie is way overrated!- Not only the dude, girls have the same thought about the confidence, though.

4. Let me think I'm the funniest guy you know:

"Ladies, we don't like when you're laughing too hard at another man's jokes. Unless we're at a comedy club or he's your father, there's no reason for that. -Actually, it's not about the jokes. It's all about the talking about the other man in front of them that matter. They get jealous, so sweet and sweat!-

5. We care about much more than looks:

"Women need to know that looks aren't the only thing that matters to us. If I want to be in a relationship with somebody, I need to have a deeper connection with them than just the physical. The best thing that a woman could do to attract me is to be herself."-Same goes to the girls, just be yourself (show your true color) if you want your relation long lasting-

6. We're not so different: 

"At the gym, men are just as self conscious and check themselves out in the mirror just as much as women do. In regards to cooking, men can do more than BBQ. All you need to do is ask-but be sure to do it after the game! Oh, and, men do like salads, especially if they are topped off with bacon!"- Yup couldn't agree more, it have been  proved a lots of my friends-

7. I have no secrets: 

"I've always been told that women know everything. Is that not accurate?"- However, depends! Usually, they just told to their girls that they feel comfort to talk with, can be trusted, and a good listener as well-

8. Don't try so hard: 

"I wish women knew even though we appreciate you taking hours to get dressed and 'put on your face,' it's no longer necessary. Superficial beauty catches our attention but natural beauty keeps it."-Although they like to flirt their eyes on the 'hot babes' but somehow, in a way they love their women to keep simple and natural. Sounds weird but it's reality-

9. Drop hints to avoid disappointing gifts: 

"When it comes to gift giving, I wish women knew that we are about as clueless as a five-year-old boy doing quantum physics. The pressure of nailing the best gift is enough to drive a man to tears. So, unless you give us a hint or just flat out tell us what you'd like, you are most likely going to end up with something unwanted. Like when I bought my wife tickets to see a wrestling match for our anniversary. She said she liked sports!"- Dude always think straight, they don't like to mess their head to think about this small things (small for them but it's a big deal for the girls)-

10. We mean well: "As guys, we're always trying to do or say something with the best of intentions, but it always seems to backfire. We mean well. Give us the benefit of the doubt once in a while!" -Girls this is sooooo true. Don't get upset if your man says something that you make you think they don't love you. They just don't that good to deliver something that they meant well to you due their man-ego-side-thingy-

That's why Man and women are different in many ways of thinking. Have you ever heard a book (bestseller list, sold 7 millions copies) written by John Gray, a relationship counselor"Men from Mars and Women from Venus". In this book, it told us that most of common relationship problems between men and women are a result of fundamental differences between the genders, which the author exemplifies by means of the book's eponymous metaphor: that men and women are from distinct planets, – men from Mars and women from Venus – and that each gender is acclimated to its own planet's society and customs, but not those of the other. One example from this paradigm is the book's assertion that men complain because they are asking for solutions while women complain because they want to be acknowledged. The book asserts that each gender can be understood in terms of distinct ways they respond to stress and stressful situations.

So, men and women be patient  and take part in getting know their partner well to have a long lasting relationship. Be considerate and tolerate for every situation to strengthen the bridge of understandings and be as a complementary partner. Seems like I have to change my future career as relationship counselor or consultant, lolz! Okay, stay tuned in happy mode and keep learning, peeps! Peace!

SARDIN oh SARDIN!

Assalammualaikum dan Salam 1 Malaysia, viewer!!

Jeng..jeng...Jeng...Aku bukan nak wat promosi "Jom, makan sardin" secara besar-besaran sempena Hari Sardin Sedunia, Duta Ikan Sardin Ayam Brand jauh sekali (kalau kompeni Ayam Brand hire aku jd Duta dowg konfem meletup uolllzz, perasan..hehehe). Sesungguhnya, aku hanyalah insan biasa yang craving pada ikan sardin. Wajarkah aku dipersalahkan?  

Punyalah 'sangkeng' (bahasa jawa meaning sanggup) cari lauk sardin, pukul 10.30am dah turun kafe kolej. Tup tup bertapak jek kat kafe, berapa kerat jek gerai yang bukak bisnes. Dalam 3 gerai yang berniaga tu, satu pun tak der yang jual lauk sardin (memang menguji keimanan sungguh, mengucap panjang la jugak). Alahai, macam nak hantukkan kepala aku kat dinding jek rasa, macam  mana pulak aku boleh terlupa yang sekarang seminggu cuti mid term sem. Dengan iman yang senipis bawang ni, beli jugak la lauk lain (dah tak der rezeki, tapi penghuni tumpangan dalam perut ni kena jaga). Tapi memang sepanjang balik ke beli dari kafe, berjela jugak la aku membebel, sowg2 pulak tu (mmg pysco la minah ni).

Ikutkan boleh jek masak sendiri. Bukan susah pun nak masak, tutup mata pun boleh tapi tapi tapi kan...geng masak aku oliday 2 minggu okay. Jadi, aku tak der geng nak main masak-masak (alasan cannot go) Sebenarnya, equipment masak-masak ni kat bilik die, aku tak berapa nak suka masuk bilik org kalau tuan dia tak der kecuali cam terdesak tu pun after dapat permission dari dia walaupun kunci dia ada pada aku. Usaha  pencarian lauk sardin tak terhenti setakat itu aje, jadi aku pun ber"massage" dengan auntie aku kat putrajaya yang berbunyi seperti di bawah:

"Salam, auntie. Kalau dalam masa terdekat ni auntie masak lauk sardin, massage ina k. T ina dengan sepantas kilat datang umah auntie. Ina mengidam nak makan, hehehe" and my auntie replied, "okay, my pleasure"

Walaupun massage tersebut mempunyai sifat malu yang sangat tipis tapi demi objektif, mission need to be accomplished! But i don't think I can resist another 24 hours (haila, bersabar la wahai tekak dan perut, tuanmu akan berusaha memuaskan kehendakmu). Memang dah macam muka sardin dah ni.

Kebetulan aku ada set lunch date ngan Mr. G nak makan korean cuisine. Walaubagaimanapun, misi pencarian lauk sardin masih dalam senarai pendek "sticky notes" aku. Malangnya, apa yang kalian boleh expect kalau makan kat food court Midvalley? Ada ke jual lauk sardin? Of course ada tapi tak menepati selera nafsu puaka NORSYALINA RAMLI. Bak kata pepatah yang baru aku reka sendiri " Alang2 dah mengidam, search and shoot for the best!" (meleleh bergelen la air liur aku camni, nak nak kalau teringat masak sardin kat umah....alahai, dugaan anak perantau). So, sambung je la mengadap makan bibimbap feveret aku sambil meluahkan kesedihan tak dapat makan sardin dengan Mr. G (aku story sampai la ke kisah msg aku ke aunty aku, not a single sequel pon aku tinggal). As expected, dia replied "eiiii, sangkeng!!". But the unexpected, he continued "Tu la orang dekat ada, tak nak mintak tolong buatkan". Tercengang-cengang sambil berkerut jugak la aku pikir siapa pulak orang yang dekat, aunty aku pun aku dah mintak tolong. Rupa-rupanya, he meant himself ( ala, suweeetnye...terlupa pulak yang aku ada dia, hehehe). Bukan apa, jatuh la pride dan keeogoaan aku yang memang dikenali tingginya mengalahkan Gunung Krakatua kat Indonesia tu setakat suruh masak lauk sardin kat dia yang bernama lelaki (boleh jek kalau aku masak tapi sebab dengan menggunakan alasan MALAS, mmg rasa muka ni nak buang ke laut jek, hehehe). Aku masih berpegang teguh lagi dengan dogma, "Do it yourself without depending to the other unless you have tried", al kunun nyer akan aku carikan jua masakan sardin di lain hari kalau tak jumpa hari tersebut (endure till the end). 

Scene fast forward>>>>

Tada!!

Mr. G is the guy with his words. That's why he's one of the man in my life that I can bestow my sacred thrust after my father and brother. Hambek ko, sampai dua masakan sardin dia masakkan. Tu ada lagi hati dia nak menambah lagi satu masakan. Speechless 10 seconds! Serius aku terharu dengan effort dia. Mr. G, you are one of the best! Insyaallah kalau aku tak hilang ingatan, I'll compile and drag this till the end of my life. Thank you for making this come true. NYSKL, Mr. G!

2 dishes ni aku melantak sorang-sorang (bukan tamak tapi member2 lain tak available that time) sambil berjurai-jurai la air mata keseronokan (nampak benor hiperbolanya). Finally, perut manyak kinyang, hati pun manyak sinang la kawan. Janji pasni tak der nak buat muka sardin lagi dah!

Teringat petikan dari member aku bahawa lelaki yang hensem adalah lelaki yang pandai masak dan pandai mengemas. Memandangkan aku ada alergi nak compliment orang depan-depan, so here's the thing:

1) Lelaki yang handsome, tak semestinya pandai masak dan mengemas....as long as dia tau masak dan mengemas dah cukup handsome dah tu

2) Tapi bertambah handsome kalau dia masak dan mengemas bukan untuk diri dia tapi untuk orang lain tanpa mengharapkan apa-apa balasan walaupun sepotong ayat pujian

3) Dan lagi handsome, macho and sweet walaupun dikala dia sibuk, dia masih adakan masa untuk masak dan mengemas untuk diri dia dan orang lain kerana HE IS the man with his words

Those quotes are valid Dengan syarat (1), (2) dan (3) bukanlah lelaki yang perasan diri dia handsome dari awal-awal lagi. That's why people says that beauty is subjective! 

Before, ended up my entries I would like to say this to all friends out there, "Many people will walk in and out of your life but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart!". Healthy heart will lead a happy life, friends. Peace, yah!