Ramadhan...I Miss U!

Assalammmualaikum dan selamat pagi yang terakhir Ramadhan 1433H!

Memandangkan hari ni adalah hari terakhir berpuasa tahun ni, so nak tanya, adik-adik, abang-abang, pakcik-pakcik sekalian ni puasa cukup ke tak (sajek x nak mention ladies and women sbb we all dapat cuti berganti okay)? Yang berpuasa cukup, TAHNIAH, yeah! Tapi yang x cukup posa ni, jangan nak melebih-lebih pulak shopping raya sebab kemenangan 1Syawal adalah untuk orang-orang benar memanfaatkan erti dan kelebihan bulan Ramadhan (exceptional bagi yang terpaksa membatalkan puasa atas sebab faktor-faktor kesihatan).

Pejam celik pejam celik, bulan Ramadhan dah nak meninggalkan kita. Kalau ditilikkan semula, sejauh manakah kita memanfaatkan bulan Ramadhan yang penuh kelebihan dan gandaan pahala ini untuk meningkatkan amalan kita terhadap Allah? Cuba ambil masa seminit dua untuk kita muhasabah diri tentang amalan-amalan yang telah kita kerjakan sepanjang bulan ini:

a) Adakah kita hanya sekadar mengejar pahala puasa sahaja tanpa melakukan ibadah-ibadah sunat yang lain seperti bersedeqah, berselawat, qiammulail, membaca Al-Quran, solat terawih dan lain-lain yang besar ganjaran pahalanya

b) Sejauh manakah kita boleh mengawal nafsu, pandangan mata, kata-kata daripada perkara-perkara yang yang sia-sia sebab kita tahu bulan Ramadan, syaitan diikat. Jadi, pada bulan ini menunjukkan sepnuhnya diri kita yang sebenar tanpa pengaruh dan hasutan syaitan.

c) Bagaimanakah kita memanfaatkan bulan Ramadhan selama 30 hari ini sebagai platform untuk mengubah tabiat-tabiat yang kurang baik kepada yang lebih baik seperti merokok, bangun pada awal pagi (sahur) dan melakukan solat-solat sunat pada malam hari, kawal diri menjadi orang yang penyabar, menutup aurat dan sebagainya.

Semua persoalan di atas boleh dijadikan kayu ukur supaya kita boleh menjadi muslim atau muslimah yang lebih baik pada masa akan datang. Bagi pengalaman sepanjang bulan Ramadhan ni, banyak pengalaman yang mengajar aku tingkatkan kesabaran dan mengawal diri dari nafsu makan, pandangan mata (xleh ushar-ushar orang hensem, kalu terushar "Subhannallah", rezeki ~_^), dan berkata perkara yang kesat dan kurang faedahnya. Tetapi agak terkilan sebab sehari tertinggal solat terawih disebabkan terlajak tidur sebab kepenatan dan tak dapat khatam Al-Quran. Hopefully, apa yang aku kerjakan pada bulan ini diterima Allah, Insyallah!

Frankly speaking, bila dah usia menginjak suku abad (saja nak mengantoikan umur aku kan), apa yang aku betul-betul nantikan adalah kedatangan bulan puasa berbanding Hari Raya Aidilfitri. Berbeza masa kecik-kecik dulu, kedatangan Hari Raya lah yang paling dinanti-nantikan sebab leh balas dendam makan macam-macam selepas sebulan berpuasa, wat collection duit raya, main bunga api and mercun, pakai baju dan kasut baru (pastu eksyen ngan kawan-kawan sape paling banyak baju raya dan yang paling lawa). Pokok pangkalnya, semuanya bertulangkan sifat riak dan menunjuk-nunjuk. Tapi waktu kecik, kita bukan fikir semua tu, yang penting keseronokan. Nostalgia sungguh! Persiapan bulan puasa aku pun melebihi persiapan menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri. Adakah disebabkan faktor umur atau sebab aku dah tak dapat duit raya? Hahaha, mungkin. Mungkin, perasaan excited nak menyambut Hari Raya akan berubah sekiranya ada kehadiran orang baru dalam hidup aku kot (boyfriend SUAMI o ANAK-ANAK, hahaha). Looking forward for this though!

Huhuhu, terasa sedih pulak nak bulan Ramadhan nak meninggalkan kita. Hopefully, kita berkesempatan bertemu dengan Ramadhan 1434H tahun depan. Insyallah. Semalam baru lepas dapat berita sedih daripada sahabat bahawa ibunda beliau telah meningal dunia kelmarin semasa mengerjakan umrah di Makkah bersama ayah beliau dan jenazah beliau diuruskan dan ditanam di sana. Semoga, roh ibunda beliau ditempatkan bersama-sama kekasih Allah. Ibunda beliau adalah dikalangan orang-orang yang beruntung sebab meninggal dunia pada bulan Ramadhan dan tanah suci Makkah. Amin!

Semoga kita semua berada dalam perlindungan Allah Ta'ala dari segala bala bencana, hasutan dan penipuan Syaitan dan Jin serta perkara-perkara yang memudaratkan. May Allah blessed us!  Stay peace and calm, my dear peeps. ~___^

Just for gag: Walau jauh manapun kita terpisah, kita melihat langit dan bulan yang sama.

Ice Age 4..Awesome!

Assalammualaikum dan Selamat bersahur, kalian ^__^!

Pejam celik pejam celik, dah hampir setengah bulan umat Islam menunaikan ibadat berpuasa pada bulan Ramadhan. Secara tidak langsung ini memberi peringatan bahawa masih berbaki 15 hari lagi bagi umat Islam masih berkesempatan meningkatkan ibadat terhadap Allah Taala supaya mendapat keredhaanNya. Remember this, "whose beginning is Mercy, whose middle is forgiveness and the whose end is freedom from fire". Jangan lepaskan peluang keemasan ini terutama pada 15 malam terakhir bulan ni kerana terdapat satu malam yang sangat istimewa iaitu Malam Lailatulqadar. Insyallah, kita akan menjadi muslimin dan muslimah yang lebih baik dari masa ke semasa.

Kowang dah tengok movie Ice Age 4: Continental Drift (2012) yang released on 13 July? Agak musykil di situ macam mana aku boleh lagging pasal muvie ni dah keluar rupanya sebab kurang feedback pasal movie. Mungkin disebabkan aku kurang mengikuti perkembangan semasa atau sibuk dengan persiapan puasa (macam la aku ada family nak buat persiapan berbagai kan..APTB). Finally dapat jugak tengok walaupun boleh dikatakan agak ketinggalan. Better late than never (Batman pun x dpt tgk lagi :'(..huhuhu).

For those who are not watching this movie yet or don't have any planning to do this weekends, I'm highly recommend you all to watch this movie! Sure, you won't be disappointed. Great opening followed by non-stop humor and hilarious continuity of the adventure cartoon features till ending. All of the cartoon features played their strong character to make this movie one of those relaxed and yet super watching with worthwhile value massages delivery (family bonding, friendship, love, teamwork and harmony living though have different backgrounds or species, survivorship on nature disaster and etc). Suitable watching for all age groups. So, parent out there, take this opportunities to bring your children and had quality time with your family.

The movie starred by Ray Romano (Manny), John Leguizamo (Sid), Denis Leary (Diego), Queen Latifah (Ellie), Keke Palmer (Peaches), Jennifer Lopez (Shira), Nicki Minaj (Steffie) and more talented actor/actress

I found this the most funny and hilarious when Louis which seem to be puzzled about the cheerful+fearless+possum Crash and Eddie (twin opposum brothers) who seem very happy though they are facing the critical problem of continental drift, then Louis asked them:

Louis: Why are so happy though in this situation?

Crash and Eddie: Should we tell him our secrets? (they nodded to each other, then continued). we are happy because we are very, very....stupid! 

(LOL)

Okay, guys, wish u have a great and fun time watching this movie. For all muslims, don't skip to perform your sunat Terawih prayer although you watch it at night! Stay peace and happy! 

with a lots of love ^_______^

Philophobic Psyco comes with a love note?

Assalammualaikum dan salam muhibbah!

Holla dear lovey-dovey peeps. I found this verse interesting while I reading the "5 Tahun 5 Bulan" malay novel written by HLOVATE. She's one of my favourite malay novelist because I found her writings are very realistic especially when she tried to tell about the real life of teenagers whom seek for excitement demands but the same time not deviate from the right path of Islam, and how they overcome it and distinguished it between good and bad, faith and lust. Most of the time, while reading her books it seem like it reflected myself in her character (obviously, the main character, hehehe).  Terrific isn't? Here's my recommendation, if u want to spend your time wisely, have a pleasure to read them.

Now, let have a peek into this verse. U might think that somehow most of the lines sound corny but you can't deny for them to be true and we experienced it in our life, though!

Have u ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing u hadn't?
Or saying nothing and wishing u had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say!

Don't be afraid to tell someone u love them
If u do, they might break ur heart..
If u don't u might break theirs

Have u ever decided not to become a couple becoz u were
too afraid of losing what already had with that person?
U can't tell ur heart what to do
It does it on its own
Without u even realize it

Have u ever wanted to love someone with everything u had,
but that other person was too afraid to let u?
Too many of us stay walled up becoz they are too afraid to care too much
For fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all

Have u ever denied ur feelings for someone
bcoz ur fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we afraid ..
Afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what other might think,
afraid of what will be found out about us
But every time we tell a lie,
The things we fear grow stronger..

Life is all about taking risks and it requires u to jump,
Don't be a person who has to look back
and wonder what they would have done,
or could have had

What would u do if every time u fell in love u had to say goodbye?
What would u do if every time u wanted someone they would never be there?
What would u do if ur best friend died tomorrow and u never got to tell them how u felt?
(even u don't care anymore)
What would u do if u loved someone more than ever and u couldn't have them?
What would u do if u never got the chance to say I am friends with all of my family
and they know that I loved them?
People live and people die

If u died tomorrow (God forbid)
I just want to tell that..
U would be in my heart.
Would I be in yours?

(written by HLOVATE)

What is ur 1st impression when u read those verses above? Whom did the verses referred to? Based on the novel, actually those verses was a forwarded email from Bat (Johanna's best boy friend when studying Medic in Aberdeen) to Johanna after he found out that Johanna has a conflict towards someone she knew for the short period in Malaysia before she further studied in Aberdeen, Along which at first she just taken him as a sister-brotherhood relationship. But from day to days, their feeling towards each other seem complicated. Sometimes they got mad and jealous without any particular reason to be felt that way have yearned them to miss each others in this long distance relationship (cute though). So, this complicated relationship caused a tiresome and bothered Johanna. That's why Bat try to send email at least to ease Johanna's feeling after his counter verbal face to face with her failed. He knew it very well that Johanna is a guarded up girl when it came about lovey-dovey thingy. Okat, that's it. Want to know more, please kindly read the novel. :p

Love comes in many forms. Love towards your parents, sibs, bestfriends, boyfriend, friends, husband and wife and etc. Here, I want to specify on unknowingly feeling that begin to grow between a boy and girl whom started their bond as friends without any other intentions (like having a crush or whatsoever). I know many boys and girls out there have facing this kind complicated lovey-dovey issue in your life that keep bothering your peaceful mind. Tiresome, I know! Because I am in that circle too, yeay! Johanna's character in the novel really reflected myself. You might think that Johanna has a philophobic issue (philophobia defined as phobia to fall in love with someone).

From my point of view who pursued the same character, it is not all about the philophobia issue. On top of that, we just love ourselves more. We love and care ourselves from getting hurt or something that might break our heart. We know ourselves better than anyone else, looking hard from outside but fragile and soft inside. That's why, Allah make species like us very well wall-guarded heart so that we tend to not easily fallen in love with a guy. So, harmless flirt won't affected us at all. It is not because our heart built of crystal or titanium which is firm and rigid to be broken down. It is a gift as a self-defense (love-proof) for being hurt from our creator, Allah S.W.T.  Every happens for its reason, buddies!

Indeed, Allah is the Great Planner and ascertain of His Creations. Creatures and human-beings are made by pairs. May be, we don't be meant to be meet in this life but it is very certain we will be united in hereafter which is definitely eternally.  Thus, when we have complicated issue regarding this confusion feeling on someone, rely on HIM and you will not be disappointed. If you really like or love someone, channeled the love devotion through Allah instead of the person whom you loved because He's the one who gave that feeling to you to love and beloved. It is afraid if you tell that person which is uncertainly he/she meant to be with you, Allah will dim the love you devoted towards her/him. So, ask consistently in your prayer for HIS guidance whether that person are really meant to be with you or otherwise, Allah surely will lead you the way. If you really meant to be with her/him, how strongly you denied your feeling, how far you ran from her/him, you will be hers/ him at the (this is the reliance that I strongly believe) and you can feel the love towards her/him are contented, which is not based on lust. But if she/he didn't meant for you, pray that Allah will conciliate your heart to accept HIS provision. Amin!

I, on behalf of my species kind (the so-called philophobia) think that:

1) We are a loyal-lover, hard to find (hehehe)
2) We can patiently wait until the right destined man appear
3) We are seeking for a serious relationship (marriage) when we are READY. Really not into couple-relation-type (bila couple boleh menyebabkan kita jd ketamakan dimana sifat memiliki & mengusai seseorang itu menjadi2 sedangkan hubungan itu belum pasti, really troublesome!)
4) Our heart is highly guarded up
5) Others might seen us as rough, tough, brutal and outrageous but indeed we are shy, sweet and loveable ;)
6) Pro in keeping our feeling towards someone (it is better to be left unspoken and undiscovered)
7) We feel that when you loved someone you will try to care, protect and comfort her/him unknowingly by him/her (cukup sekadar dari kejauhan)

Have fun to watch this video. 

Really love the message behind it and love the T-shirt too says that " Sarcasm is the service that we offered".

A credit to the famous vlogger, Matluthfi90 for this video


So, lover-doveyers out there, stay peace and happy.
May Allah love all of us!

(It's 5th Ramadhan and it's my Birthday in Hijri calender. Happy to be born in this Mubarakah Month. May I will be a better Muslimah from time to time, Amin ~_____^)

Ramadhan Al-Mubarak 1433H

Assalammulaikum, muslimin dan muslimah sekalian ~_^!

Yea..yeah! Ramadhan 1433H dah menyapa. Masa sungguh pantas berlalu, rasanya pengalaman berpuasa ramadhan yang lepas pun masih segar dalam ingatan aku. Sememangnya, pengalaman berpuasa aku tiap-tiap tahun berlainan dan ada pembaharuan dari segi kematangan dan peningkatan amalan, Alhamdulillah. Perancangan dan kehangatan nak menyambut puasa kali ni dah terasa dari bulan Rejab lagi. Excited terlebih mungkin disebabkan ada geng nak masak, berbuka dan berterawih sama-sama. Walaubagaimanapun,  terasa sedih sebab tak dapat meraikan 1st raya bersama keluarga tercinta, nasib anak perantau! Ibu ayah sori tak dapat sambut 1st puasa sama-sama :'(! "Jiwa kene kental, anak muda".

Bagi sesiapa yang terlepas lintas langsung Pengunguman Puasa bulan Ramadhan 1433H bersamaan tahun 2012 boleh la klik pada video di atas! Boleh naikkan feeling puasa, hehehe :)

  

(kredit to FB page)

So, bolehlah mula baca niat puasa. Bagi mereka yang selalu terlajak bangun sahur walupun dah kunci 3 jenis jam tak bangun-bangun juga disarankan untuk baca niat puasa sebulan atau sebelum tidur tu rajin-rajinkanlah diri baca niat puasa Esok hari seperti yang tertera di atas. Tak de la lepas ni orang buat alasan tak puasa sebab tak niat puasa. Typical excuse, "It was sooooo lame"!

Berikut adalah amalan-amalan sunat ketika berpuasa:

1) Menyegerakan berbuka setelah masuk waktu Magrib.  Sunat berbuka dengan kurma (atau benda manis) dan segelas air

2) Membaca doa berbuka puasa

3) Melambatkan makan sahur

4) Memperbanyakkan amalan ibadah sepanjang bulan ramadhan kerana Allah Taa'la seperti solat terawih setiap malam diikuti dengan solat Witir

5) Mulai malam 15 Ramadhan sehingga akhir bulan, baca Doa Qunut pada rakaat terakhir solat Witir

6) Perbanyakkan doa dan zikir

7) Bertadarus sama ada bersendiri atau serkumpulan

8) Beri'ktiqaf di masjid terutama pada 10 malam terakhir Ramadhan

9) Bersedekah tidak kira wang, makanan, pakaian atau apa-apa. Jika tidak mampu, cukuplah dengan memberi senyuman kerana senyuman merupakan satu sedekah yang paling ringan dan mendatangkan kebahagian pada kita dan orang lain.

10) Menjamu orang berbuka puasa sama ada di rumah ke rumah atau di masjid.

11) Menjauhi perkara-perkara yang tidak berfaedah

Semoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih bermakna dan barakah dari Ramadhan-Ramdhan sebelumnya. Insyallah, apa yang kita kerjakan dengan niat kerana Allah Taala supaya kita sama-sama mendapat keredhaan dari-Nya. Amin!

Dengan rendah diri, aku ingin meminta maaf di atas segalan silap salah dan keterlanjuran kata-kata yang boleh mengguris perasaan sesiapa. Sesungguhnya, aku hanya insan yang normal yang tak terlepas dari melakukan kesalahan. Yang baik dari dari Allah dan yang buruk datang dari kita sendiri. So guys, jangan ponteng-ponteng puasa.

SELAMAT BERPUASA!

(Notes for myself: Dah setahun mula menerima kehadiran dia oleh amalannya di bulan Ramadhan..^___^)

I am just A Girl...

Assalammualaikum and Holla, peeps!

Salam Sya'ban to all muslims. Yang kaum hawa tu, dah ganti puasa? Jangan memandang rendah pengecualian yang dah diberi kepada kita dengan tidak menggantikannya atau buat-buat lupe. Tips mudah untuk tidak mudah lupa atau sering bertangguh ganti puasa adalah dengan berpuasa Enam semasa bulan SYAWAL, kawan-kawan! Yipee, tak sabar nak tunggu bulan Ramadhan. Semoga kita bertambah baik dari semasa ke semasa sebagai hamba-Nya.

Lately, the way people look at me make me wonder to see my own reflection in the mirror, "really, is this the reflection of 20++ years old ladies perhaps still a girl not yet a woman should be look like?". No wonder people keep saying that I am younger than my age. But what if (with this feature look) with a little bit modification of the appearance matured thingy replace in this body, do I really look like people in my age? People nowadays are so judgemental. What kind of theory or concept did they look into to judge people? Did they look at the whole thing, or the just peek into the small part then make a conclusion based on the small observation for assumption. For me, people' views on someone or something just like they see beauty, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder which mean, depend on what criteria they prescribed as beauty for themselves. Some say big round eyes are beautiful, some says small double eye lid eyes are beautiful, so it depends of the eyes of the beholder. 

Girl at 20++ years old should be look like this? Hehehe

Doesn't matter how people judge you. The fundamental is you know yourself better than anyone else and you happy being who you are. But from time to time, we want to be better and that's the time we change for the good. So, go for it! BUT DON'T EVER CHANGE YOURSELF for ANYONE ELSE. Trust me, it won't do. Do  it for the bottom in your heart and because of ALLAH. 

I just happy for being who I am and love myself more and more! Enjoy this write up below, for a credit to myself stand as who I am. 

I'm just a girl,

Definitely not the perfect one,

My Hijab doesn't always stay in place,

and of course I do spill things a lot,

Yeah, most of the time I like to act cool

Although when things messed up, 

I continued to pretend I'm cool, strong and tough,

But the reality is it really break my nerves down and everything tear apart,

Only the same species like me can see me thoroughly, 

that I am fragile like a glass...

I know that I'm not always right,
but I hate to admit that I'm wrong,
It is because I have some issue about egoistic, sorry my bad..
When my friends and I have a debate on something,
I always come out with theories, concepts to prove my points are acceptable,
It is not about taking all the winnings most of the times,
But I just love to see how serious the people to make every efforts to prove their stands on something,
sometimes came out with creative, brilliant, logic and beyond the boundaries of other people might think the points are,
I just enjoy be part of spectator of that scene..

People might see me as a bubbly and happy-go-lucky girl,
No denial on that, yes I am,
With the appearance of smiling on my face,
Doesn't mean that it is always real,
Deep down inside, I am just and ordinary girl,
who feel the pain and anger like normal girl does,
and may be I can be read like an open book but I hide so much,
To block people to see me crystal clear,
Like a firewall design for antivirus,
I have get used to be an independent girl from my childhood,
And I just don't want to get other worry about me,

If I want something, I will go for it,
I try to work hard at that things,
though I know that I don't always get what I deserve,
I might failed but at least I won't regret for what I've tried,
You might say that I am a stone head,
But what I believe,
Diligence is the mother of good fortune,
It's not like I believe in fortune but I have faith in my creator,
For every good intentions and efforts,
Allah will lead you the way and make it easier

My friends and I sometimes fight,

and may be some days nothing goes right,

Then it is the time for me try to take left,

Just to discover the new side of things to break down my curiosity,

Though I have to be the subject of the experiment of life,

Life is experiment anyway,

But when I think about it, I remember how amazing life truly is and that may be

Just may be, I like being a girl...perfectly imperfect!

And for the boys out there,

Here a good news,

I won't mess with your head or play with your heart,

Because I am a real girl, 

I will finish what I started,

I believe in fate and destined which have been plan by HIM,

When the time come, the right person will appear,

might be He's the one close to you 

or might be he's accidentally you met in supermarket,

anything might happen,

That journey seem enjoyable somehow to me,

Perhaps the last stand man win!

Happy day onwards, peeps!

Happy Father's Day, Ayah!

Assalammualaikum dan Salam Ceria Pagi Ahad! ^_^

Today is the third week of June and we are celebrating a Father's Day. Yeah, it was a father, dad, daddy, abuchi, chap, walid, ayah and what-so-called a man who raised a child(s) day for you! Hehehe, perhaps, father's day is everyday, as long as his sons and daughters not forgotten about their father's healthiness and happiness in every of their prayer. So, I would to take this opportunity to wish my only AYAH  and all daddy in the world, a "HAPPY FATHER'S DAY". Although we are far apart, you are close in my hearts. Always loving you and thank you for all you have done and sacrificed to make our life better, ayah!

For somehow, father seems to be
A man who pays the bills
While Mother binds up little hurts
And nurses all our bills

And Father struggles daily
To live up to "HIS IMAGE"
As protector and provider
And also a "hero or the scrimmage"

And perhaps that is the reason
We sometimes get the notion
That Fathers are not subject
To the thing we call emotion

But if you look inside father's heart
Where no one else can see
You'll find he's a sentimental
And as "soft" as he can be

But he's so busy every day
In the grueling race of life
He leaves the sentimental stuff
To this partner a.k.a his wife

But one thing we should know
Our Fathers are just wonderful
In a million different ways
And they merit loving compliments
And accolade of praise

For the only reason Dad aspires
To fortune and success
Is to make the family proud of him
And to bring them happiness

And like our heavenly Father,
He's the guardian and a guide
Someone that we can count on
To be always on our side
HaPPy Father's Day to my only "AYAH"

I will always love you, my words above how beautiful it was written still can't measure my love towards you like the way you did to us too. You will be always in my prayer and I will make you proud of me one day, I will, Insyallah! Show your love to your dad, guys while he's still breathing or you will regret later. A kiss and 4 words not gonna bring harm to you.

"I love you, AYAH!"

Muah

Mr Ramli Bin Raus. I am proud to call you, Ayah!

The time flew fast and I wondered how the wrinkles is there, ayah. It's like being forever that I am still a little girl of yours.

My ayah is great and wonderful. Of course our father is the greatest than other father

^______^

Be happy, everyone!

Perihal Jumaat

Assalammualaikum, kaum adam dan hawa sekalian! ^__^

Salam Jumaat. Sempena hari jumaat yang mulia ni elok la kalau kata-kata yang bakal dilontarkan lebih sopan dan sedap didengar oleh halwa telinga (sejuk hati bagi sesiapa yang membaca, hehehe). 

Jumaat lepas, memandangkan aku dengan member aku (kaum hawa) tak der selera makan, so kiteowg berdua decide untuk makan kat Wong Solo, Bandar Baru Bangi sebab nak makan ayam penyet yang al-kununnya boleh menaikkan selera makan kteowg la. Jadi, kteowg gerak ke sana dalam kul 12.45pm dengan harapan banyak la table yang available, al-maklumlah peak hour tuh since the guys have to go to perform their  Jumaat prayer.

On the way to Wong Solo, kteowg akan melalui Masjid Bandar Baru Bangi (x sure la apa nama masjid dia). Majoriti penduduk di sini adalah Melayu dan Islam. This is the moment yang paling menyeronokkan bagi the most of kaum Hawa (apa tak-tak,  tak baik menipu...dosa!) especially aku la sebab leh ushar guys yang berbaju melayu, berkain pelekat, bersongkok atau berketayap jalan dengan segaknya ke masjid (lebih extravaganza superb bagi guys yang lengkap berbaju melayu bersamping sekali). Sejuk perut ibu mengandung &sejuk gak mata memandang. Ayat common aku kat member aku bile nampak guys2 yang nak pergi masjid ni "calon-calonnya ialah...(disertai bunyi alunan drum buatan mulut sendiri)..."-stok-stok wat calon suami dengan syarat yang hadir di masjid before Khatib start baca Khutbah la. Kalau pukul 1.45pm baru terhegeh-hegeh nak datang memang kena pandang sepi la kan. Sorry guys, u r just not Hawa type!

Kan sejuk mata memandang tuh (ooooo Kyuhyun). Okay, aku bukan bias disebabkan aku Fan Super Junior tapi tak dapat jumpa picture Kaum Adam yang kesegakan dan kehenseman serta kemelayuan dalam koleksi gambar aku. "Siapa bilang teruna Melayu tak menawan, tak menarik hati.."

Tiba di Wong Solo dalam 1.00++p.m., memang seperti yang dijangka, table penuh didominasikan dengan gomen dan private lady officer, ada la 2-3 meja geng-geng kaum adam still having their lunch. Aiceh, punyalah bijak, aku ngan member aku standing near that guys table dengan harapan dowg akan bangun pergi menunaikan kewajipan solat Jumaat a few minutes more. But...10 min..15 min...20 min passed...they still relax2, chillax2 sambil menghembuskan asap-asap nikotina dengan selamba badak dia, what the fuuuuuuhhhhh! Aku tabik spring la dengan that guys because they really have a high level shameless dikelilingi dengan kaum-kaum hawa disitu. Datang period? or might be they are foreigner? I dont think so. Percakapan dan penampilan memang konfem Melayu kaw-kaw punya. At least, kalau tak pergi solat Jumaat pun,  u guys must show some respects la. Siapalah aku to be a judgemental pasal kowg. But I wonder how they want to lead their family if the Solat Jumaat yang seminggu sekali berjemaah pun they can't perform. Perform it alternately? Hurm, let's read the hadith below:

Sabda Rasulullah SAW:

" Solat Jumaat itu hak wajib dikerjakan oleh tiap-tiap orang Islam dengan berjemaah, kecuali 4 jenis manusia: hamba sahaya yang dimiliki, perempuan, anak-anak, dan orang sakit" 

-Hadis Riwayat Abu Dawud & Hakim

You guys might be have some excuses to escape the prayer and might be you guys said "Kowang sibuk apsal? Dosa aku tanggung, kubur pun lain-lain". Come on guys, that was very lame. Kita hidup pun hanya persinggahan di dunia, apa yang dikerjakan di dunia are reflection for our life in hereafter though. Aku pun ordinary person yang tak terlepas dari leka dengan fana dunia but I always keep trying to be a better person at least not in other people' eyes cukuplah pada penilaian yang Maha Esa Allah SWT. Kita saling ingat-mengingati. Titik.

Aku nak share ngan kowg dua fenomena yang betul-betul mengkagumkan aku dan jarang aku lihat. It did happen in Bandar Baru Bangi:

Firman Allah SWT :

" Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Apabila diserukan seruan azan untuk mengerjakan solat pada hari Jumaat, maka segeralah kamu ke masjid untuk mengingati Allah (dengan mengerjakan Solat Jumaat) dan tinggalkanlah berjual beli (pada saat itu); yang demikian adalah baik bagi kamu, jika kamu mengetahui (hakikat sebenarnya)," -Surah Al-Jumu'ah : 9

1st phenomenon

Refer to that verse Quran above, ada satu stesyen minyak Petronas yang tutup operasi perniagaannya sementara untuk memberi penghormatan untu Solat Jumaat. If the owner was a Muslim, Alhamdullillah, pendekatan beliau harus dijadikan contoh tauladan bagi peniaga-peniaga Muslim yang lain. If the owner was a non-muslim, hopefully satu hari dibukakan hatinya untuk terima hidayah Allah dan ini menjadikan cabaran kepada peniaga-peniaga Muslim yang lain. Why they can do, we as Muslims can't?

2nd phenomenon

<Kesinambungan cerita di Wong Solo di atas>
Finally, after 20 minit penantian baru lah kiteowg dapat table nun di hujung berdekatan dengan kitchen dowg. That guys yang kurang malunya itu masih tetap pendirian untuk tidak berganjak walaupun ramai lagi kaum Hawa yang masih menanti table yang kosong. Strong and sturdy contention (Semoga Allah merahmati mereka). Pekerja-pekerja di Wong Solo ni mostly lelaki. My observation didn't end here. So, I wonder macam mana pula kelonggaran yang ditetapkan bagi syarak Islam tentang mereka yang berkerja di restoran pada waktu genting di mana mereka bergantung pada kerja tersebut sebagai punca rezeki mereka. Aku recalled balik apa yang aku dah belajar kat sekolah dulu bahawa:

Pengecualian dari menunaikan Solat Jumaat (mereka hanya perlu Solat Zuhur spt biasa):

1. Sakit- sakit yang menyukarkan untuk ke masjid atau bimbang akan memudaratkan penyakitnya

2. Hujan- Jika hujan itu membawa kesukaran untuk ke masjid

3. Musafir

4. Takut dizalimi- orang yang bersembunyi kerana takut dizalimi

5. Perang- Orang yang berada di medan perang

Sedang aku sibuk refreshen the memories, sedar-sedar pekerja2 lelaki dowg yang tadi sibuk amek pesanan, hantar pesanan, yang masak dan cuci pinggan tadi dah hilang sedikit demi sedikit. Baru aku tahu yang dowg pergi Solat Jumaat. Tugas-tugas dowg diambil alih oleh pekerja-pekerja kaum hawa termasuk owner Wong Solo (ambil alih peranan di dapur) manakala anak owner ambil peranan sebagai cashier. Pendekatan dan budaya yang macam ini kita perlu terapkan dalam perniagaan Muslim di Malaysia. Baru perniagaan  maju sebab dapat keberkatan dari Allah. Allahuakbar! Tersenyum dan sejuk hati aku sambil sambung mengadap makanan depan mata.

Here, some info related to Solat Jumaat

Solat jumaat- solat fardhu 2 rakaat pada hari Jumaat menggantikan solat zohor dibuat secara berjemaah selepas mendengar Khutbah Jumaat. Hukumnya, Fardhu Ain (wajib keatas setiap lelaki muallaf dengan syarat-syarat: 

1. Islam

2. Baligh

3. Berakal

4. Merdeka

5. Lelaki

6. Sihat

7. Bermastautin atau bermukim-tidak wajib bg org musafir

Syarat sah solat Jumaat:

1. Didirikan dalam waktu Zuhur

2. Tempat mendirikan solat Jumaat itu hendaklah di suatu tempat yang telah ditetapkan spt di masjid, dewan, padang etc etc

3. berjemaah dengan sekurang-kurangnya 40 orang yang tinggal tetap di kawasan itu

4. Didahului dengan 2 khutbah

Perkara-perkara sunat yang dilakukan pada hari Jumaat:

1. Mandi Sunat hari Jumaat, terutama ketika hendak berangkat ke masjid

2. Memotong kuku

3. Memotong, mencabut atau mencukur bulu (ketiak, hidung, misai)

4. Bersugi

5. Memakai bau-bauan

6. Berhias diri dengan memakai pakaian yang cantik dan bersih

7. Bersegera ke masjid

8. Berniat Iktikaf

9. Solat sunat tahiyatul masjid sebaik sahaja masuk ke dalam masjid

10. Perbanyakkan berzikir, membaca Al-Quran dan berselawat ke atas Nabi 

" Sesiapa yang meninggalkan Solat Jumaat 3 kali dengan sengaja, maka Allah SWT akan menutup hatinya daripada menerima petunjuk" - Hadis Riwayat Abu Daud

Sekian, pengisian rohani pada entri kali ini. I am just an ordinary girl who still seek for HIS Mercy and Blessings. May, all of us be blessed. Amin! 

"Jika rohani (hati) kita sihat, jasmani (tubuh) kita turut sihat"

Inner and outer peace, u allz!

All iz well