People are Scary somehow

This morning, unexpectedly I watched Presidential Debate between Hillary Clinton (Democratic nominee) and Donald Trump (Republican nominee) for the next US President election. This is something peculiar that I did to watch over political aspect, politics is not my thing! Miracle, I did watch it till the end of the debate. I love debate though. I love the way the debaters strongly emphasized their points based on facts, stats or realistic point of views when being asked, how they react to the questions or provocation from the opposition, their IQ and EQ along the way must be played well. 

The issues being discussed in the presidential debate by the moderator made me stayed tune till the end. What I can sum up when here after the debate session is somehow people are scary. To reach their goal and glory, they would do anything though it is totally wrong human being. As for DT, it was understandable that he wanted to save his people in many ways by being racist but he need to be realistic, how many people in US who are genetically pure American. Only minority will vote for him, he should come up with somthing bigger and better. He seems getting shaking when Hillary come up with a few good points to provoke DT, and his facts quite inflatuated. Between those two might be HC seems to be favoured among voters. She seems calm when voicing out her points and during provocation by DT. However, she seems scary to me like she has hidden agenda to attract the voters by pointed out a few plan she would do when become the next president. 

There was so many reactions from the US citizens about the debate. People has different needs thus they always have different preferences. 

Here is the link if you want to watch the debate:

I am eager to watch debate from Michelle Obama. She's seems to be the favourite among the US citizens. By the way, I'm not American. I am just a people who love peace. 

"Great leader is not the one who are great to lead but the one who can lead his followers when he's not around" and

"Great teacher is not the one who can teach well but the one who what she/he taught is being followed and used when they are not there"

-anynomous-

Sage Advice from those over 60

This article was taken from my FB friend ( from other source too)

Thank you for this writer, you have written almost of my points below about my point of view to see life. I am not 60, and way too long to reach the number, perhap no chance at of. What my point is, life is too short, do what ever is priority and necessary so that you dont regret later and most important thing, find your ETERNAL HAPPINESS.

Please kindly read word by word and make useful of them...

What would be the best, sage advice from those who have a decent amount of “life experience” under their belt and have no doubt learned some important lessons along the way? 

The following question was posed to those over 60: “What advice would you give to those who are half your age?”

The answers are surprisingly not what you might think. They are definitely valuable though and worth learning so you can get ahead in life as much as possible! Check these out and start applying some of these important gems. Here are the answers and advice given by the group of over 60:

1. People always say, ’’Make sure you get a job doing what you love!’’ But that isn’t the best advice. The right job is the job you love some days, can tolerate most days, and still pays the bills. Almost nobody has a job they love every day.

2. Years go by in the blink of an eye. Don’t marry young. Live your life. Go places. Do things. If you have the means or not. Pack a bag and go wherever you can afford to go. While you have no dependents, don’t buy stuff. Any stuff. See the world. Look through travel magazines and pick a spot. GO!

3. Don’t take life so seriously. Even if things seem dark and hopeless, try to laugh at how ridiculous life is.

4. A true friend will come running if you call them at 2am. Everyone else is just an acquaintance.

5. The most important person in your life is the person who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such.

6. Children grow up way too fast. Make the most of the time you have with them.

7. Nobody ever dies wishing they had worked more. Work hard, but don’t prioritize work over family, friends, or even yourself.

8. You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re going to wish you took better care of yourself in your youth.

9. If you’re getting overwhelmed by life, just return to the immediate present moment and savour all that is beautiful and comforting. Take a deep breath, relax.

10. Eat and exercise like you’re a diabetic heart patient with a stroke — so you never actually become one.

11. We have one time on this earth. Don’t wake up and realize that you are 60 years old and haven’t done the things you dreamed about.

12. Maybe this one isn’t as profound as the others, but I think it’s important… Floss regularly, dental problems are awful.

13. Don’t take anyone else’s advice as gospel. You can ask for advice from someone you respect, then take your situation into consideration and make your own decision. Essentially, take your own advice is my advice…

14. Stuff is just stuff. Don’t hold onto material objects, hold onto time and experiences instead.

15. He joints you damage today will get their revenge later. Even if you think they’ve recovered completely. TRUST ME!

16. Appreciate the small things and to be present in the moment. What do I mean? Well, it seems today like younger people are all about immediate gratification. Instead, why not appreciate every small moment? We don’t get to stay on this crazy/wonderful planet forever and the greatest pleasure can be found in the most mundane of activities. Instead of sending a text, pick up the phone and call someone. Call your mother, have a conversation about nothing in particular. Those are the moments to hold onto.

17. Pay your bills and stay the hell out of debt. If I could have paid myself all the money I’ve paid out in interest over the years, I’d be retired already.

18. Jealousy destroys relationships. Trust your significant other, because who else are you supposed to trust?

19. If you have a dream of being or doing something that seems impossible, try for it anyway. It will only become more impossible as you age and become responsible for other people.

20. When you meet someone for the first time, stop and realize that you really know nothing about them. You see race, gender, age, clothes. Forget it all. You know nothing. Those biased assumptions that pop into your head because of the way your brain likes categories, are limiting your life, and other people’s lives.

Kalkulator

Dulu masa sekolah menengah, 

Kalkulator saintifik ni mmg keperluan,

Susah wo kalau 'dia' xda.

Hari akhir persekolahan sekolah tingkatan 5,

Budak2 asrama kan,

Entah kenapa overly excited konon tak sabar,

Nak berubah title dewasa,

Ditinggal2 nya kalkulator tu kat dalam kelas,

Memandangkan aku antara orang last keluar daripada kelas,

Yelah terasa sentimental sikit sebab aku xsuka jd dewasa,

Bukan satu peringkat yang kita boleh reverse,

So kena betul2 nikmati utk saat2 terakhir,

Bila nampak kalkulator saintifik yang terabai kat atas meja tu aku ambil,

Dalam 5 yang aku jumpa gak,

2 aku buat stok simpanan aku,

Dan lagi 3 aku tinggalkan kat junior,

Sedekah amal jariah katanya,

Gembira bebudak ni dapat kalkulator free,

Upgrade version dr 380MS ke 570MS,

Rezeki jangan ditolak,

Benda free kan.

Rupa-rupanya,

Bila masuk Matrikulasi and Universiti pon,

Kalkulator ni masih lagi keperluan,

Nasib aku punya masih lagi simpan dgn baik,

Ntah mana lagi 2 yang ak buat simpanan tu,

Hilang tanpa jejak,

Pedulikan yang penting aku punya masih ada.

Lps dapat skrol degree,

Ingatkan xperlu lagi guna kalkulator saintifik,

Meleset tanggapan aku lagi,

Rupanya khidmat 'dia' masih diperlukan,

Sambung pulak belajar ke peringkat yg lebih sikit,

Tuntut ilmu tu biar smpai ke liang lahad, 

Tak cukup rasanya ilmu di dada,

Sebenarnya tak perlu pon tuntut ilmu itu dimestikan belajar di U,

Kat mana2 pon boleh.

Satu hari, 

Bila tekan 'ON',

Tiada paparan di skrin,

Mungkin sudah kehabisan bateri barangkali,

Pernah sebelum ni terjadi,

Gantikan dengan bateri yang baru,

'Dia' kembali berfungsi,

Tp sudah diganti yang baru pun x berfungsi,

Tak kan jangka hayat 'dia' dah tiba,

Belum sempat aku buat ucapan perpisahan,

Ko pergi tanpa pesan,

Orang kata google ada semua jawapan,

Aku cari tp jawapan dia mengecewakan,

Google cakap kena ganti yang baru,

Hiba sekejap.

Sudahnya cari kat kedai,

Tiada model yang sama,

Kalau ad yang sama pon harganya terlalu mahal,

Tak pe ak try cari kat mudah.my,

Mmg kita berjodoh,

Model yang sama, 

Jauh lebih murah dari harga kedai,

Walupun reused tp khidmat dia still tip top,

Ak beli,

Pemilik bertukar tangan,

Dan kini aku punya ko kembali,

Lain tapi hampir sama,

Ko adalah keperluan,

Pelengkap hidupku.

I love u kalkulator saintifik CASIO FX-570MS.

Aidiladha 2016 Kami

Berbeza dengan tahun2 lalu, ayah kata kita sambut raya haji korban dekat kg, mungkin ayah rindu dengan arwah ibu dan nak rasa beraya dekat dengan arwah ibu. Biasanya, kami sambut dirumah JB, semua adik beradik yang berkesempatan akan berkumpul di situ dan ibu seperti biasa kan jadi ketua chef masak hidangan raya dan hanya Aunt Zura satu family akan ziarah beraya. 

So, pagi2 ahad dah bersiap sedia nak memantai (bahasa oghang nismilan bermaksud  persediaan memasak juadah beraya, silap mintak maaf ye). Tak banyak sangat nak buat since, raya haji ni kat nismilan biasa kunjungan dari sedara mara terdekat jek. Tapi banyak juga dgg kerbau yang ayah beli, 7 kg! Pertama kali berpengalaman potong dgg kerbau, sangat fresh, padat dgn dgg dan kurang lemak jika dibandingkan dengan dgg lembu. Macam biasa, bab prepare ni mmg dah jd kebiasaan tugasan aku. Masak belum yakin dengan skala yang besar, masih ada yang lebih layak.

Ni la dgg kerbau yang siap dipotong utk buat rendang. Rendang Wan Sipah mmg terbaik, skunk resepi diperturunkan kepada anak perempuan selaku Aunt Lily aku. 

Nak sedap masak rendang atas kayu api. Tp jenuh la nak tunggu sampai kering. Kena hadap susah dulu la kalau nak sedap kan.

Buluh lemang tu upah orang cari. Satu panjang lemanv tu dia cas rm1.00 siap dengan daun pisang dan masuk dalam buluh, murah! Selebihnya kami buat sendiri. Home made jugak terbaik! 

Tang jaga api nak bakat lemang ni yang payah sikit. Tak semua sabar dan pandai jaga api. Lemang bakat dengan bara api jek. So lelaki2 nismilan yang pandai jaga api bakar lemang ada added value untuk ciri2 calon lelaki yang dikehendaki oleh dagho2 nismilan. Nak ke berlakikan oghang nismilan? Hehehe

Sudahnya ni yang sempat capture. Rendang kobau nasi impit dan kuah kacang! Actually feveret ak cukup ngan kuah kacang dah heaven. Sedih tak dapat berguru ngan arwah ibu resepi kuah kacang. Satu realiti yang ak kene terima, ak xde peluang rasa masakan ibu lagi. Titik! Kami sangat rindukan masakan ibu! So, korang yang ada ibu tu nikmatilah masakan ibu kowg selagi berkesempatan. Belajar la resepi apa yang patut.

Keluarga kecil kami.

Kami dengan ayah

Ayah dengan menantu2 nya. Bakal menantu lagi dua orang mana? Krik krik......

Ayah dan cucu2 nya.

Bila mana semua x sedia camera roll on! Candid!

Aku dan kakak, eh silap adik perempuan.

Niece yg sulung, Airis. Manja na

Nephew sulung, Rayyan. Ni kes nmapak eskem terus xkeruan. 

Second niece, Aura si mata bulat! Nama dia Ixora tang mana Aura pon xtau la. Hehheh

Cousin yang selalu dibuli and exclaimed kita ni demand sedangkan kita yang keluar duit bayar.

Time to back to reality life.

Tahun depan nak ajak ayah buat korban kat negara lain dimana orang2 susah nak dapat makan dgg sambil2 melancong kalau ada rezeli. Insha Allah!

Salam Aidiladha semua.

Nikmat mana yang didustakan

Seronok ada peluang berjemaah dekat masjid especially solat magrib ke isya'. Tapi sayang, peluang yang ad tu kebiasaan dia bila waktu kesibukan bukan waktu kelapangan yang ada. Maksudnya, sementara tunggu perlaksaan tugas pukul 8 mlm, ko berhenti jemaah waktu magrib di masjid instead of masa lapang ko di rumah xbuat apa, ko x rebut peluang yang ad untuk berjemaah. Kena pertingkatkan dari aspek itu, Insha Allah. 

Lupa masih dalam hari2 terakhir umat Islam menjalankan Ibadat Haji di Makkah tatkala ini. Justeru, terdengar takbir raya bergema seusai solat jemaah magrib oleh imam, sayu dan terkesan hingga laju jugak empangan kat mata ni mengalir deras menuruni pipi. Diseka air di mata dan pipi perlahan-lahan, supaya jemaah kiri dan kanan xperasan. Syukur Allah masih lembutkan hati ini. Syukur masih kuat anggota badan menunaikan solat. Insaf. Semoga aku dan orang2 yang aku kasihi hidup dalam Iman dan Islam, mati kami dalam Iman dan Islam dan ditempatkan dalam Syurga dengan Iman dan Islam. Amin! 

Pada kesempatan ini, aku nak laungkan sokongan aku terhadap usaha #woman'sboattogaza khususnya wakil dari Asia Tenggara iaitu Dr Fauziah Mohd Hasan dan Puan Norsham Abu Bakar dimana masing2 membawa kapal yang boleh muatkan 15 orang perlarian Palestin dari kekejaman rejim zionis bersama2 wakil2 wanita lain dari beberapa negara. Semoga usaha dan misi mereka dipermudahkan Allah. Mereka serikandi hebat! 

Dengan itu saya Norsyalina Ramli menyatakan sokongan saya terhadap usaha dan misi, Woman's Boat to Gaza!

Ikuti perkembangan mereka di FB Aqsa Syarif atau Rose2Rose. Insha Allah kalau diizinkan Allah, kita terpilih utk jadi Serikandi hebat seperti mereka. Amin!

Small Changes can make Big Differences

I always believe "Small changes can make Big Differences", same goes to "Small Act of Kindness can Change the World". We dont have to look at a bigger scope, just start the small change within yourself and your circling. Good attitude wont need us to have better level of education and it wont hurt us as human being. Please, stop being ignorance!

 

I have manay experiences on related quotes above in my life. One of the incident happen few weeks ago, when u was driving at night, i gave signal to turn right. Then, when i want to take turn, a heard a bump on my right side of car. I was hit by a motorcycle, quite hard! I was shocked that time and as a girl, i have to be sturdy to face the situation where, the car always to be blamed even the motorcyclist hit us. Actually I was angry that time, cause i gave the signal earlier and cant the motorcyclist saw it, plus thinking the hard bump sound will cost a lot to repair the car. But when i parked my car in safer side, then i went out and confronted the motorcyclist "didnt you see i gave signal to turn right?" (With strict voice). He did, but he was mistaken of something but he said "sorry". With that attitude, suddenly i felt pity for him. Since it was just a scratch and a little bump on the surface of the car door compared to the motorcyclist's fell off, i asked him whether he's okay and need to go to the clinic or not. I think he was a little bit younger than me. He felt sorry for what happen to my car. I said, it's okay. He was thankful as i didnt want any refund for the damage. See, small words bring a huge turn over, tahu! I hate people with bad attitude. 

Jason Lim's effort in making a video to educate people with small changes to say "THANK YOU" should be credited. And i I learnt how to say thank you when driving. Normally, I will raise my hand to say thank you but not sure whether they can see it or not.  Hopefully, you guys please dont forget to say thank you regardless who are they. 

And guys, "THANK YOU" for reading. Please do share the video, it is very helpful to educate our society! 

Complicated in Uncomplicated girl

Sound or look familiar the girl u ever known?

Hahahha, the first time I read, I can just laugh.

Yeah, it's Me! ^_____^